I’ve been seeing a common theme on OLD profiles, guys writing “no drama.” I wondered why they keep putting this on their profile.

Determinedblonde · 2021-05-10T10:15:21+00:00

I always put positive things in my profile. Someone who puts negative things or what they DON’T want, is either jaded or needs to take a break from dating.

divination__ · 2021-05-10T12:12:34+00:00

I guarantee anyone who says 'no drama' on their profile is the one who brings the drama. Someone who genuinely doesn't like or experience drama too often wouldn't even feel the need to state that, as for them a drama-free relationship would be a given. Men put that there probably because they themselves are emotionally unavailable or manipulative and when women push back against that they blame them for causing 'drama', or its a manipulation tactic to make you shut up before you even bring up any conflict, because you don't want to 'cause drama'. It is absolutely a glaring red flag.

eru378 · 2021-05-10T07:58:52+00:00

"No drama" = I will do whatever I want and do not need to take you into consideration at all, and you will not raise any concerns, make any criticisms, or comment in any other way on my behaviour

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-05-10T16:28:28+00:00

No drama means they cause drama. They ARE the drama. LEFT SWIPE, as fast as possible. 😂

Hhjjuuy · 2021-05-10T17:47:58+00:00

Any no in their profile is fascinating to me. Like what is the point at all? Are they so lazy they can't screen the very rare woman who'll actually match them? They're always deeply unattractive otherwise.

2021-05-10T07:35:15+00:00

You tell them

No drama ? = go back to your mama

🙄

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