How do you cope with libido ?

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-07-21T13:01:00+00:00

Every time you're out in public and see a hottie wandering around, look at her and just think to yourself "hypergamy, gigantic body count and a $500,000 divorce settlement".

That should clear your mind right up.

cleats4u · 2021-07-21T13:34:48+00:00

When your in your 20's and early 30's it's going to be difficult. I did the occasional escort and I dated an alpha widow in her mid 40's that was still attractive. She had a boy toy to show to her friends and I had someone that would have a hard time "oopsing" me due to her age. Mid to late 30's my libido really started to calm down. 40's a lot more. 50's I didn't care if I ever got laid again. I stopped thinking about it. Besides the women in my age group were some real raisins by then. Lol.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2021-07-21T13:28:57+00:00

When I see attractive women now my first thought is "I wonder how many men are tired of her shit?" And then I remember how miserable I end up when I get into LTR's, I always end up regretting it, then I smile because I realize I am out and I no longer need to worry about shit like that. Always puts a spring in my step when I realize a beautiful woman no longer has power over me.

NoMarriageNoKids · 2021-07-21T14:29:05+00:00

"No matter how hot she is there is some guy, somewhere, who is sick of her shit."

Impossible-asset · 2021-07-21T16:34:23+00:00

Get a hooker. Works for me.

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-07-21T18:47:14+00:00

Get laid. Hire a hooker, work it out and when she's done she leaves. Just like the maid.

FreeSelf-sufficient · 2021-07-21T13:14:40+00:00

Well for the MGTOW that still hooks up regularly and works out to get female attention for only short term fun I'd say hit it and quit it then your head will be clear again. If you want safe stradegy ask me privately.

Frequentbadideas · 2021-07-21T14:32:53+00:00

I did the pump and dump thing for a while after my divorce, but monk suits me better these days. If it gets bad 5 minutes and a pocket pussy gets the poison out. As for the women themselves.... I just remember freezing through the winter sleeping on the floor of an empty house with no heat..... then it's easy to pass.

nicolaj198vi · 2021-07-21T16:59:22+00:00

Professionals and PornHub. That’s all you need to calm down your libido.

Add a bit of conversation with women around, just to remind yourself the reasons you don’t want one of them in your life.

This is my protocol gentlemen.

Frosty-Gate-8094 · 2021-07-21T14:28:32+00:00

Just simple!! Wank it off...

It works for me.. Dont use porn if you dont want to..

Nathaniel66 · 2021-07-22T10:11:02+00:00

Lifting weights. Keeping your body in low body fat keeps your libido low (unless you're genetically gifted to have low body fat).

Sad_Camera7357 · 2021-07-21T19:29:36+00:00

Think of what you have and what you have to lose. A lifetime of experiences and adventures or 45 mins in some rented used orifice? Rub one out in a sock and then go live your life.

Beneficial-Champion2 · 2021-07-21T20:54:15+00:00

I pump n’ dump ‘em

They all turn into the same woman after six months anyway.

redditradishman · 2021-07-22T00:15:19+00:00

Nothing wrong with dating or sex so long as you know the risks. If you are mostly not thinking of women and see an attractive one and you begin to fantasy about the idea... nothing wrong with getting the feeling out with the professional. I've mostly trained my brain to ignore the idea but I get the itch every so often. Usually ends up being not worth it vs. porn which acts as a good reminder to see women like you see the sun... good for a glance but best not to engage too closely.

Ebzurdo · 2021-07-22T03:54:29+00:00

If your long term plans are to not have them around better begin curbing the habit as soon as possible.

Release or sublimate the urge into productive activities.

It's okay to have short bursts of unattached physical fun but beware of making it a habit

UtetopiaSS · 2021-07-21T12:42:57+00:00

Yes. You're allowed to be MGTOW and still fuck. MGTOW is going your own way, not avoiding women. Having said that, if avoiding women is part of going your own way, go for it.

Personally.. me.. I go my own way.. but still enjoy the company of women. I just don't date, get attached or get into relationships.

Mysterious-Dirt-6506 · 2021-07-21T22:59:52+00:00

Do what women do, misrepresent who you are to get what you need in the moment. They are not virgins and you are not taking anything from them.

Sex is a mutually beneficial activity

freemason85 · 2021-07-21T20:13:56+00:00

Just jerk off. It quells the temptation. I'm going to be 40 in a few years and i know that the urge will go away with age. I had my fun with women in my teens and 20s now i just want to relax when i come home with a cold one and some weed. Works for me but like i said I'm older now so i don't chase pussy like i used to.

MOLONGU · 2021-07-22T06:26:00+00:00

Masterbate or have sex.

I suggest investing in a high quality sex doll.

I would say use escorts but it can get pricey,and their can be potential legal ramifications,some jobs won't hire you if you had a prostitute and I'm not sure if polygraphs differentiate, mostly government positions law enforcement etc.

If you don't care about that twice a month shouldn't break your budget and you shouldn't be spending more than $120 maybe $150 if shes a 9 or 10 but O wouldn't make a habit of it a nut is a nut whether if it's with a 6 or 8.

Not much you can do about your libido besides burn off energy in the gym and it probably won't tapper off untill your 30s.

SeymourStacks · 2021-07-24T21:38:14+00:00

Get a prescription for finasteride. Side effect is that it protects against hair loss and increases testosterone levels in your bloodstream.

unskillfull · 2021-07-22T15:57:29+00:00

Key to me was stop watching porn. After a two years without porn, I am able to manage without masturbation.

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AzoZyten · 2021-07-21T19:26:18+00:00

Beat off like three times a day.

Yasai101 · 2021-07-22T04:34:01+00:00

One wank at a time.

tonesbrown1976 · 2021-07-21T19:37:33+00:00

Jerk off more easy man.

UnearthlyDinosaur · 2021-07-22T02:12:11+00:00

Just get older. One day you won’t have a libido and the hot girls won’t make you hard

Title	How do you cope with libido ?
Author	SnooSuggestions1996
Upvotes	1
Comments	37
Date	July 21, 2021 12:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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