Is a troubled girl an easier lay or not?

Borsao66 · 2017-01-04T19:25:47+00:00

Easy to get in bed, yes.

Easy to get rid of, no.

Girls with daddy/abandonment issues are too much trouble in the long run.

imatahigherplace · 2017-01-04T20:46:05+00:00

Is she an easier lay? Yes.

Is it worth it? No.

Speaking from experience, it is never worth it to stick your dick in girls with visible issues.

When she's banging on your door and screaming outside your window at 3 A.M. remember I tried to warn you.

bomerr · 2017-01-05T05:32:14+00:00

If she thinks you are attractive then it can be an easier lay.

However if you start to treat her decent and have a real relationship then she can start to lose attraction fast because she believes that she deserves to be treated like shit and treating her decent is a sign of weakness.

I would avoid damaged women.

[deleted] · 2017-01-04T20:35:46+00:00

It depends on the girl and the situation. Some chicks react by throwing her pussy at everyone who comes along, and some chicks react by closing up.

RPAlternate42 · 2017-01-04T23:24:29+00:00

TL;DR: Instructions unclear: dick stuck in crazy

lietruth · 2017-01-04T19:22:24+00:00

That's a lot of background info.

Yes she might be more promiscuous because of her past. She sees sex as a control tool. And she might exercise it more intensely to exhibit more control.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-05T00:45:19+00:00

Here's what happens. She'll be easier to lay and she'll be more submissive in the relationship, at first, while she's a bit lost and isn't sure of what she wants.
Once she notices what she wants, you'll be surprised. Issued girls, sometimes having being victims of emotional abuse themselves, are PROS at that. Appeal to sympathy, strong and explicit demonstrations of being hurt and in pain, and passive aggressiveness. LOTS of it.
Once you find yourself DEPENDENT on an issued girl, you're probably screwed.

Nyquil-Junkie · 2017-01-05T00:58:12+00:00

Stick not thy dick into crazy.

Mustaka · 2017-01-04T20:57:27+00:00

Never stick your dick in crazy.

SetConsumes · 2017-01-04T21:10:05+00:00

Yes, but it comes with way more shit too.

TimeIsDollars · 2017-01-05T00:12:01+00:00

The easier they are to get in bed, the harder they are to get rid of later.

flashbang123 · 2017-01-04T21:22:33+00:00

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

oldredder · 2017-01-06T06:45:29+00:00

self-esteem troubled: HELL YES

crazy-bitch troubled: YES, but DO NOT DO THIS. I know, the temptation is there, and crazy-girl sex is the best-sex, it REALLY is, but all of us learn in time to regret this choice. all of us

Bounce-back / rebound sex: 3pts+

do it, use some precaution about crazy-risk like maybe if you intend one-lay only don't give your real name. Middle name or something, do her at her place. AFTER, think it over, if you want further contact or not

You're not a psychiatrist and the younger you are the harder this is, lack of experience being the reason, but listen for tell-tale signs of crazy^tm . Any nonsense she randomly brings up about rape, violent guys, anything showing she is super-needy or super-controlling, her having temper tantrums or randomly going from crying-sad to super-happy back to random-sad / super-depressed for no reason, these are all really fuckin bad signs and you should run if she does those things.

Also if she's the kind of girl who picks violent fights with other random girls (or also dudes) to punch, cut, etc., fuckin run. Just run. Dip out to a side-alley, etc., like you never saw the girl, you never even talked to her.

Other brands of less-obvious semi-crazy you're gonna have to learn on your own. There's no way to put a life of mostly-see-it from one man's mind into another. Just play it careful. Single mom: if she admits this in any way be super-cautious. Mentions pregnancy: if it's about her JUST DO NOT trust a damn thing. You fail to use a condom and you fucked your life. That's the advice

stephcurryftw · 2017-01-04T19:30:37+00:00

Just be very careful.

SimpleTossAway · 2017-01-04T19:51:21+00:00

HAHAH, go for it.

HumanSockPuppet · 2017-01-04T21:18:55+00:00

Rebounders are easier to lay, but they'll throw up resistance from time to time, and they'll have plenty of fresh drama that they'll try to rope you into.

Remain stoic, and never let her shitty moods drag you down.

Lice138 · 2017-01-04T21:31:18+00:00

she wears a choker

That should be easy. The choker just stops them from swallowing your entire cock and choking on it

50pluspiller · 2017-01-05T01:18:53+00:00

Chances are the bitch is crazy... Never stick your Dick in crazy.

[deleted] · 2017-01-05T05:29:45+00:00

Of course. Nearly all slutty women are troubled. Make a Venn diagram.

bigtuna45 · 2017-01-04T19:16:57+00:00

Usually the more vulnerable they are the easier they give it up.

Title	Is a troubled girl an easier lay or not?
Author	latiostw
Upvotes	27
Comments	34
Date	January 4, 2017 7:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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