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For some reason you're married to a girl, and she posts this on your Facebook wall

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January 11, 2017
20 upvotes
/r/askTRP

http://i.imgur.com/riu519B.jpg

WHAT

DO

YOU

DO

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Title For some reason you're married to a girl, and she posts this on your Facebook wall
Author

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Upvotes 20
Comments 40
Date January 11, 2017 2:19 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5ncebu/for_some_reason_youre_married_to_a_girl_and_she/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/for-some-reason-youre-married-to-a-girl-and-she.80607
https://theredarchive.com/post/80607

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[–]pm_me_the_best_tits79 points80 points81 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

agree and amplify...

"they should make airplane noises as they spoon feed you too"

[–]Ganaria_Gente32 points33 points34 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

another one:

"if she seems horny or in need of sex, i should have sex with her without her neeeding to ask me!"

id love to see their hypocritical faces when OP drops this on his facebook

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Make that:

"If she seems horny, bend her over and fuck her without her asking."

Emphasize the undertone that she is a fucktoy.

[–]empatheticapathetic2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

On social media in front of their friends?

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You shouldn't be posting anything on social media that isn't advancing your Mission in some way. We're just talking fun here.

[–]pm_me_the_best_tits1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hahah thats a funny one

[–]ManOfGrapes-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck this is a great A&A haha will definitely use this

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This right here though. Yes, do this.

[–]connorgasgarth points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not very independent if you have to pay for their bills and gas.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 9 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

It's funny because what this Facebook post is essentially saying is that these "indepedent womyn" aren't really independent at all, and they aren't able to admit that they need a man to support them, so you've gotta just "man up and pay all dey's bills fo' dem witout askin'"

Or something.

It's actually crazy the more I think about it, how deep the implications of this seemingly simple post run.

By paying their bills/handling their responsibilities for them without asking them if they need help (and thus making them admit that they need help and aren't so independent after all) you're allowing them to continue living with the illusion that they're strong and independent and can "do it all" and "don't need no man".

[–]pm_me_the_best_tits19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

think about feminism as a whole...

"women don't need support!! lets create an entire movement (feminism) to support the fact women don't need support and show how independent we are as a group"

lol wut

[–]Ganaria_Gente8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yep, that's the hypocrisy of these feminists.

"grrrl power! im an independent woman!"

....

"why aren't you taking care of my responsibilities AND yours? what, you're working 9-5 and im a part time employee/stay at home mom? you bring home more $$$ to support us, than i do? who cares, we should equally split our household chores! ya know, equality!"

  • a two faced misandrist :D

[–]IMGRINDIN_IPROMISE points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The implications...

[–]DiggerClam1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone watched Always Sunny last night.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like dealing with a child. 10 years old Billy makes a tantrum, insists he's "not a boy anymore!". You deal with him with amused mastery, agreeing with him to make him feel better.. and doing nothing about it and going back to your adult ventures. In any case, you wouldn't start being upset about it, or make fun or shame him about his inconsistencies.

[–]DntPnicIGotThis0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then after you put in all that work expecting some type of kudos and good relationship karma they will hit you with "you did it on your own and I didnt need/want you to it..". My philosophy is a closes mouth doesn't get fed if she needs something within reason that she cannot do for herself ill give the assist if asked but im not going to anyones servant.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you white and your wife is black?

[–]1HS-Thompson6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't engage in this kind of bullshit social media nonsense. Just ignore it, and don't troll for things like this.

[–]BestSC866 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The woman is basically admitting that she is very dependent on her husband to handle her life as TRP indicates.

And follow the oldest maxim:
Watch a woman's actions\not her words.

These independent women are really just voicing the claptrap which they know they should say in today's society...while their internals are screaming for a dominant masculine man for them to depend on.

[–]jdgrazia2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I upgrade to a girl that doesn't cherry pick propaganda to extort me for gas and bills..

holy shit this is infuriating, If I'm being honest I think you might have some BP tendencies that are enabling her to think that this is acceptable communication.

[–]TitsAndWhiskey4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd ask for an English translation

[–]LaRedPill1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A&A....

One of my female coworkers lives far away from the office so I will start commuting with her every day.
I love how you can trust me so much that you have no problem with me doing that stuff with women you don't know.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Facebook.

Found the problem.

[–]FrameWalker2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore.

[–]CDBaller3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Get divorced.

But seriously, it's childish. Ignore.

[–]2niczar1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Screams of low class, low education.

[–]Daxxipro18041 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pay a bill for her? Ha.

[–]FelipeAngeles0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is a joke. Take it as such. It just shows that she understands the contradiction. IMHO it is actually funny.

[–]redolas0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

DON'T take it personally. That's not for you there. It's for all the other FB "friends", moms, sluts and betas. It's her social validation.

If you react, you'll turn a simple stupid social reaction for her friends into a shit test for you. Which you automatically lost, because you made it your shit test in the first place.

If she brings up the post IRL, you explain the rules of your household. If you don't have them, well, get working and get them. Not because of this post, but because it has to be done. You're the captain of the ship, the crew has to know what the rules are.

Edit: I just realized she posted this on your wall. Take her by the hand and sit her down. Explain to her that if she wants something, she will have to specifically ask for it. You're NOT playing the guessing game. And give her duties, things to do. Money and attention must be a reward.

A bit late for you but ... never marry.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's a dim light of hope. Maybe she sees how ridiculous it is and thinks it is funny.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I say, "Haha no."

[–]Terdmuffin0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ask why whoever wrote that was yelling

[–]gabilromariz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would take it as a comfort test, ignore

[–]muh_posts0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I agree completely, so can you leave your bills lying around where he might see them?"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore.

[–]the-bum-hammer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say tell her to go back to school. That was impossible to understand and, if she understands that drivel, she needs far more education.

[–]FreshTits0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How is she independent AND married to him and how does he NOT know those are things that husbands do. Once married you are no longer independent honey. Is this just for attention?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What do you do

Ask yourself why the fuck you married this entitled bitch who is trying to say "please do stuff for me without me having to take responsibility for asking so that I can take you for granted and maintain my delusion of being independent".

Externally tell her to shut up and make you a sandwich.

[–]Mildly_Sociopathic-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I thought truly independent women didn't need to ask."

[–]Lsegundo-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A & A

I wouldn't know what to do because I only deal with REAL independent women that can pay their own bills. No fakers allowed.

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