Any positive separation stories?? I’m going to get a attorney to make sure everything is documented and agreed on in case of divorce down the road. I’ll be staying in the house and she will move out. No one cheated and we’re really civil and both sad about the situation. She has codependency issues and feels like she needs to stand on her own two feet. I have a large amount of money and we got together when we were young so she feels like she’s never had to do things on her own. I’m 16 days sober now I’ve chosen Going out with the guys over family many times and deal with anger problems. I’ve also been seeing a therapist for 3 weeks now. I Know Get A Lawyer that’s the first thing I’m doing today.