I'll create a post soon with my whole drama filled saga, but for now.. a few details. My wife took an adventurous relationship we engaged in TOGETHER and turned it into an affair. When I caught her, she showed zero remorse and wanted me to throw myself at her (her words) so she could decide who she wanted to be with; if I was worth her time. Are you fucking kidding me? I didn't play that game. I made the guy go away, though I was pretty sure he didn't. So over the course of a few months, I catch her twice more with him. Needless to say, divorce is pending. It's been about a year in that situation while we work on our finances and get our house ready to sell. I've been tracking her secretly and documenting how while she was out of a job she would go to his house 3-4 days a week, meeting him as he got home and would be there until right about when I'd get home. Since getting a job, she has started spending 3-4 nights a week at his house. Either she doesn't tell my kids (14/18) anything and disappears, or she lies to them and says she is going to "real estate meetings (she got her license)". So, instead of my kids being upset that she's gone all the time (my 18yr old daughter is VERY suspicious), my son is happy - "It's good! Mom is out making money for us!". What a fucking joke! I just keep documenting her behavior and am patiently waiting for the right time to blow this up in her face. I even had a friend let me know that they ran into her and her BF at a sex party! I got the information for her swinger account and sure enough, I recognize her (no face) in the picture. Documented that too!

We haven't filed or really started the divorce proceedings, just had a couple consultations with lawyers so far.

So, last night I was at my Dad's house picking up easter treats for my kids and my Step-mother told me that my wife had talked to her a couple months ago about the divorce. Ok, odd, but whatever. My Step-mom goes on to tell me that my wife told her about the BF.. WHAT?! Not just that he exists, but details... how he is a maintenance worker and doesn't make much money, not like me (her words), but he love the simple things in life and then sends my Step-mom a fucking picture of him! Then she goes onto tell her that my wife's whole family knows about him! I wonder if she hasn't introduced him to her family! Seriously.. how fucked up is that?!? I'm trying to wrap my head around any possible motive for her to tell MY family about her BF. I can only come up with that she is trying to tell me in a backhanded way. But what a dumb thing to do before the divorce is finished - it just makes no sense to me!