I dont know whats sexist and incelish about this sub.

DelightfulFronds · 2021-05-25T14:09:27+00:00

Well, according to them, people here only pretend to care about male issues because they actually just hate women. They hate women because they women won't sleep with them, making them incels.

So if you say 'The education gender gap is a huge problem' what they see is you saying 'I hate women'.

That's why.

chill_stoner_0604 · 2021-05-25T14:07:38+00:00

Most of those that say this are just sexist against men and it bothers them that a group of men can get together and speak about issues we face because they feel it distracts from their movement and use labels like "sexist" to destroy our credibility

duhhhh · 2021-05-25T15:13:31+00:00

I was initially confused too.

I am often called an incel on reddit for commenting about male domestic violence victims (about half of DV victims are male with a gender neutral definition of DV), male rape victims (about 40% of rapists are women raping men with a gender neutral definition of rape), or female victims that were sex trafficked by women (almost 40% of sex traffickers are women). All my evidence (government data) is misogynistic. All my logic is incel.

Based on all the times I was called an incel, I finally figured it out. Incels are the biggest group of people concerned with relationship violence, nonconsensual sex, and women being forced into prostitution. Interesting that people without sexual relationships support those of us with sex/relationship issues so much. Very compassionate group of folks!

2021-05-25T14:36:18+00:00

People call men who know the realities of relationships and the differences between men and women and don't succumb to fantasy mindset sexist and incels. There's nothing about this sub that's either of those.

dzkrf · 2021-05-25T13:58:59+00:00

In the imaginations of children who remain young in Neverland

Khasimir · 2021-05-25T23:10:21+00:00

Yea I saw a post on r/4chan where /r/AgainstHateSubreddits was mentioned in the comments and I went to it to see.

I was already subbed here and didn't think it was really all that toxic because the conversations seem pretty appropriate and just.

Come to find out, the majority of the front page of /r/AgainstHateSubreddits is about r/mensrights.

Interesting how that happens huh. A subreddit called "againsthatesubs" is targetting a sub that isn't even that bad. Which sub is hating which? Seems like they have it backwards so maybe they should change their name.

Quix_Nix · 2021-05-25T19:47:46+00:00

It is projection

twinkletoestherman · 2021-05-25T20:06:40+00:00

Discrimination has never showed much reason. Don't look for logic in what was said to just stir you up. Let them come to find them and find healthy debate and a push for equality. It's something we can all get on board with.

d_nijmegen · 2021-05-25T13:58:28+00:00

We get a few of them, and then we dismember their argument. Usually results in a quick get away.

Theres still sexism here though. Not like fds. But some people here are 100% bigoted.

Downvotes don't argue the point guys.

Ending up mgtow because all the women you've met were shit, isn't sexist.

Expecting all women to be shit. That definitely is.

ThisIsTheEnd6 · 2021-05-25T14:07:44+00:00

People tend to view movements by the most extreme aspects of it.

People hear 'Mens rights' and they think 'MGTOW'. Just like people hear 'feminist' and they think 'Female dating strategy'

Neither are fair representations and both inhibit real progress on terms of equality.

WeaknessTechnical654 · 2021-05-25T14:53:41+00:00

They are here, mainly in the comment section. I would say only about 30% are misogynists. The rest actually care about men.

Tall-School1553 · 2021-05-26T01:05:24+00:00

yeah we hate incels more than anyone else

we should find all incels and beat the shit out of them right bros

_Gringus_ · 2021-05-29T15:31:39+00:00

they're deep inside the heads of r/AgainstHateSubreddits users

Joe_Immortan · 2021-05-26T06:07:00+00:00

Occasionally you’ll see a few of those comments but they’re usually downvoted into oblivion, removed, or too far down in the comments to get noticed. But that doesn’t stop the haters from cherry picking to make the sub look bad...

geriatricsoul · 2021-05-25T18:12:36+00:00

Inceldom and seismic come from a place of hate. Everyone is getting upset because here we are choosing to love ourselves more

Title	I dont know whats sexist and incelish about this sub.
Author	somerandomuser295
Upvotes	45
Comments	31
Date	May 25, 2021 1:54 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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