So the other day i read how women use crying to get out of certain situations. I commented how this girl i worked with grabbed my ass and smacked it as well like it was a normal thing to do. (Never knew her outside of work) well she cried when i loudly told her to stop doing it and managment talked to me and tried to write me up. I contacted a lawyer after i told my job i wanted to talk to our district manager. (Corprate) i filed a complaint against her with him and human resourses.
Fast forward and my lawyer meets up with him and a couple of other big wigs. (He had them pull the footage dating back 2 months prior to that meeting) and as you guessed, it showed her doing it about 12 different times. He laid it all out for them and how bad this could actually get and corprate met my demands and then some. I got a nice raise, 3 weeks paid vacation, she got fired on the spot, and my general manager got 3 weeks suspension without pay for the way he handled the whole situation. I also got a apology from said general manager and a promise to handle male sexual assult claims as serious as they handle womens. They also paid my lawyers fees. It wasnt much since the lawsuit wasnt filed yet. It was drawn up though ready to be filed. (Justice!).
I have worked with this company for 5 years and havent had any other issues other then this one and man was it a big issue. Took only a couple of days to get it resovled once my lawyer took over. So all in all im satisfied even though i just wanted her fired. Literally all i asked since i knew there was cameras that caught it.
Edit to fix spelling and also to add: my lawyer is a pit bull. He was outraged when he documented my statement with how they tried to write me up. Its like it was personal to him. Thats what made the difference.
Edit #2: i shouldnt have to explain this but im going to anyways for more context. When i was underage i was raped 2 times. Once when i was 8 by my babysitter and moms best friend. She was charged with sexual misconduct, and the 2nd time i just turned 17 and went to reno with a fake id and was drugged by a 45 yr old women. I didnt press charges for that one. This is just to explain how im not cool with people of any gender just putting there hands on me like that. (I had to explain that to my feneral managee because he thinks it was her just being "flirty" and me making a mountian out of a ant hill)
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Good on you!!!
Those is what you get when you defend your integrity with a fierceness.
I hope you feel proud of what you just accomplished.
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