I am a woman and I hate feminism

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-07-26T03:28:58+00:00

If women can opt out of pregnancy via abortion (without man having a say) men should be able to opt out of child support.

Equal rights equal responsibility.

Anavosa · 2019-07-26T02:05:05+00:00

I agree with you 100% and I’m a woman. Men have rights too!

Dog_Lawyer_DDS · 2019-07-26T02:11:32+00:00

Women like you are rare.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T02:13:35+00:00

Thanks, my husband calls me a unicorn.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T02:36:02+00:00

Thank you! That means a lot.

Have you considered doing any sort of activism?

Onlymgtow88 · 2019-07-26T03:48:33+00:00

Feminism robs women of happy relaxed fun Men. I used to be really charming and loved female friends because of the great conversations and feeling of closeness. Now I must appear boring as hell because a part of Me knows it’s dangerous to relax. Cancel culture is toxic.

theoracleofosiris · 2019-07-26T06:31:55+00:00

Nah don’t sweat over it, we men have adapted and learnt how to deal with this feminism bullshit.

Turns out, traditionalism also sucked, it took feminism to let us realise there was a choice. Feminism and traditionalism both sucks.

Disengaging from women and society is the answer. True peace and freedom.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T14:30:51+00:00

I am a woman. I found this subreddit,after going on r/rants about this and being attacked. My husband is the one who told me about it.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T14:56:20+00:00

I actually don’t come from a healthy family. My father cheated on my mother and treated us like garbage until the day he left. My mother started drinking. I never had a good male role model. I then started dating and I found all the wrong guys. I had abusive relationships (physical and mental). I never told anyone what I was going through. I eventually developed panic disorder.I started feeling worthless and hopeless. One night when I was at my lowest, a commercial for Eharmony came on. I decided well I guess I’ll give it one more shot. After a few bad guys, I get a message. This guy says hi and eventually we start talking. We had a lot in common and we had both been burned pretty bad. He turned out to be the guy I married. We waited 7 years before getting married.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T15:43:44+00:00

This is just a start. I am doing what I can, with what I have where I am. I will be doing more. Do you have any tips for getting more involved?

diretodozap · 2019-07-26T02:57:00+00:00

You should hate feminism for what it has done to women.

Maheski · 2019-07-26T15:40:47+00:00

Thank you

2019-07-26T04:40:35+00:00

Most of my friends are guys, and I've made it clear to them from the beginning that I hate this toxic femininity that's flying around, and that I'll let them know if they cross any boundaries with me. They seem to appreciate that, and it makes me happy to have them relax around me, since they know I wont go batshit on them

Preach, my fellow feminism-hating gal!

helloimderek · 2019-07-26T04:40:35+00:00

r/MGTOW exists for a reason

r8001 · 2019-07-26T11:19:30+00:00

I have told my husband that I don't understand how men do it. you're treated so poorly, and so much is expected of you.

Don't give a fuck. Do everything only for myself. Laugh at society, it's rules and it's attempts to make a slave 'till the grave out of me. Avoid women completely.

I'm a white straight man. I'm the absolute top of human chain. I'm strong, smart and resourceful. Few angry cunts and their supporters won't ruin my life.

RockmanXX · 2019-07-26T09:55:38+00:00

I think you have this viewpoint because you sound like you're from a healthy family and have found a great husband. So you have every reason to NOT hate men.

I believe that many feminists had have bad fathers or none at all, and many feminists also hate men because of romantic rejection(Incels, sound familiar?), that's REALLY the root of their misandry.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T15:21:51+00:00

That is a very good question. I believe there are many answers. Getting drunk and sleeping around, lack of responsibility, and not waiting for the right one, just finding mr.right-now. What are your thoughts as to why this happens?

JestyerAverageJoe · 2019-07-26T18:50:21+00:00

Watch the movie The Red Pill and let me know what you think.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T18:51:10+00:00

I will watch it tonight, and post my thoughts here.

firewatchersdaughter · 2019-07-26T20:06:29+00:00

Do you feel pressured by society to accept feminism? What is the typical reaction when you say you hate feminism?

RavenWinters56 · 2019-07-26T05:11:00+00:00

I agree with your post for the most part. I agree that men are in need/deserve equal rights. But it’s not feminism we need to be pointing fingers at, it’s all the misandrists calling themselves feminists. Feminism is “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.” I interpret this meaning, if men’s rights are not equal to women’s, we fight for equality. Misandry is “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men”. Because of the freedoms true feminism brought, it allowed misandrists to misuse the term to do whatever they wanted, including taking away men’s rights.

We don’t need to discourage feminism. We need to destroy misandrist ideology. Feminism allowed US women to vote. Misandry is destroying what’s left of what those women fought for: equality for men and women.

Edit: The word I’ve been looking for is egalitarianism (thank you, Dogeek!). Feminism was great in its first and second waves but now I’m not sure about it... I’ll have to look into it again.

Edit 2: Upon reading the comments it sounds like I've been very misinformed about feminism. I feel dumb about being duped, again, into thinking I was supporting something good when I wasn't. It's not easy to reprogram things I've been taught are good that aren't and to try and correct fallacious thinking and correct facts I had wrong, but I will learn and I will change to be better. I appreciate everyone's replies and have learned a lot from this experience, as well as apologize for my ignorance. Much love to all <3

jp_mra · 2019-07-26T04:26:47+00:00

Do you mean modern feminism?

Eh, I’m glad me too happened. I’m glad people are aware of how much sexual harassment women go through.

I don’t understand how feminism is ruining mens lives. I’m glad women can work just as much as a man can. This way, she doesn’t have to rely on anyone but herself.

?

Socialist133 · 2019-07-26T09:50:05+00:00

McBendyLicktenstein · 2019-07-26T15:37:20+00:00

So what are you doing about it besides writing on a men’s forum? Changing laws, getting women together and protesting for men’s rites?

TheLeperLeprechaun · 2019-07-26T07:39:48+00:00

Thanks for supporting us but please understand that the “feminism” you describe is pretty much “western feminism”.

Feminism is actually a useful tool in other parts of the world where inequality is a genuine problem. And gender roles that have been established for millennia aren’t subject to being changed. Women in western countries have it a lot easier than they think compared to some countries in other parts of the world where they can’t even leave their house without a male companion.

I get what you’re trying to say and thank you for your support but let’s not judge all aspects of feminism on the values of what we see in western countries. True feminism is needed and we need to show that we understand that.

2019-07-26T06:02:47+00:00

Thanks for understanding. Unfortunately, 1 woman on the internet isnt enough to stop me from my revenge plowing. Maybe ill change my mind when my dick stops working in my 60s. Most of my married buddies will be divorced and free to go fishing again

asteriks111 · 2019-07-26T03:32:19+00:00

you stupid man retard

Crazy_Horse_Moon · 2019-07-26T11:43:21+00:00

or you are a man pretending to be a woman. Seems wierd that you visit this forum as a woman.

hauntedtofu · 2019-07-26T02:09:13+00:00

Did he text you back sis

Title	I am a woman and I hate feminism
Author	hauntedtofu
Upvotes	296
Comments	130
Date	July 26, 2019 2:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/chwtki/i_am_a_woman_and_i_hate_feminism/
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