She just doesn't give a fuck, does she?

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-01T00:16:16+00:00

You're a moron. The first flake was a red flag. I don't understand you desperate beta bitches with no spines on here. If she flakes ONCE, you next. That's what abundance mentality is about. It's about knowing and practicing the idea that there are girls out there who would crawl through broken glass to meet up with you, and you deserve nothing else. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. It doesn't matter if she tries to reschedule 3 days later while apologizing and offering u steak and anal. Have some dignity and pride in yourself. She missed her chance.

Now look at you, getting played like a damn fool by a girl who doesn't even give a single fuck about u.

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-05-01T00:10:11+00:00

You can either next her or tell her to stop flaking, using a calm, mature tone.

She is stringing you along for validation, most likely. Off-chance she is testing you to see how you will react to flakiness.

I'm currently dating a girl who did this twice before we hooked up on the 3rd date. Goes like this.

Date #1 Going to mutual friends party, you should come!

She says she would love to and will see me there. Never shows up, never texts me. I make zero attempts to reinitiate and move on figuring that's it. I do NOT text her that night asking where she is. She dropped the ball, I let it drop.

Date #2 Randomly about 2 weeks later, she texts me out of the blue on a Friday night.

I reply with something witty like "oh so now you want to have fun?" Girly emoji replies and a 'yes'. I let her know I'm headed to a dance club with some friends and she can meet me there in a couple hours. She agrees.

I expected here there by 11-12, she never shows. Again I think nothing of it and text nothing to her. I leave around 1:30 with my friends. She texts me about 2:30-3:00 saying 'sorry i'm late! where are you?'

My reply was this:

"you are late. If you can't respect my time, we can't have fun"

She apologized and we agreed to reschedule.

Date #3 She comes directly to my house. No date, no meeting out. I do not go out of my way for her. Think it was a Sunday or weekday. Chill on the back porch for a bit, have a few drinks. Take her inside. Fuck like rabbits.

CatfishMeNot · 2017-05-01T07:03:29+00:00

I hope you're a troll, otherwise your pathetic attitude makes me sick

SexySmexxy · 2017-05-01T06:12:48+00:00

First of all, you are the problem.

Not in a ... "You're the abusive boyfriend" type of problem, but if you find girls treating you like shit it's because you're too beta.

As someone who has gone from girls treating him like shit to having girls message me back to back to back asking me "if I'm asleep", believe me when I say you are the problem.

oldredder · 2017-05-01T07:56:32+00:00

this woman, like many, has learned to act like a man.

She's not dating material.

Good for sex? Maybe

Title	She just doesn't give a fuck, does she?
Author	NewTRPGuy
Upvotes	2
Comments	49
Date	April 30, 2017 11:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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