Being a male teacher was my dream - until I was falsely accused

HeForeverBleeds · 2017-11-23T21:49:24+00:00

They questioned the child with leading questions to get him to single out two teachers - myself and a female teacher - but only I was suspended and questioned by police.

This is the most glaring part. Apart from and along with the issue of people having their lives ruined on the basis of baseless accusations, the whole issue is yet another example of discrimination against men, since women almost never find themselves in the same situation

The issue with things like this is both false accusations as well as downplaying sexual abuse. When it comes to men, people are overly paranoid and will persecute men for sex crimes they never committed. When it comes to women, people are overly comfortable and will trust any woman alone with any child, won't investigate accusations of sexual abuse made against them, and often give them slaps on the wrist even when they are convicted

Zero4505 · 2017-11-24T02:20:59+00:00

I am sorry to hear that. When I was in high school on of my female classmate was going around jokingly saying the art teacher and her had sex. Well guess who over heard that and next thing he was let go. Most of the class went to his defense but damage done.

Adanu0 · 2017-11-24T02:55:56+00:00

Society is constantly branding all men by the actions of the few who do wrong. That kind of attitude comes at a cost and is hurting your grandfathers, your fathers, your brothers, and - most of all - your sons.*

So true. I wish my feminist friends would understand that.

boxsterguy · 2017-11-24T06:32:46+00:00

The parents of a young boy believed their son, who had begun to touch himself when his nappy was being changed, had been taught the behaviour by someone else.

Stupid, stupid parents. That's what kids do. They touch. They pull. They tug. They flip it up and down. It's not sexual. They're just exploring bits of their bodies, and that one's just another bit like a finger or toe or ear or whatever else. What kind of idiot cop wouldn't laugh that one right out the door? "My kid's touching himself." "Duh?"

stonegiant4 · 2017-11-24T12:45:11+00:00

The photography teacher had a kinda similar story happen to him. He was accused by a girl in his class of having porn on his school computer (which she turned out to have put there). He was fired immediately. Even after the girl had admitted that she framed him there was still no recourse. Now he works at Menards.

2017-11-24T13:01:03+00:00

That day everyone did exactly what they should have been doing. A child was being a child and doing child things,

I absolutely, energeticaly, with much hatred, disagree with that statement.

The kid did what kids do - which is explore that thing attached to there body.

The parents are monsters. They deserve to be sued. By both the business and the writer.

chambertlo · 2017-11-24T06:15:50+00:00

Another man whose life was ruined by a child and their mother. Women continue to destroy the lives of men and society just accepts it. Not this mother fucker. Let some bitch accuse me of some I didn’t do. There would Not be a single expletive I would not use.

2017-11-27T19:17:51+00:00

Yes, while we hear endless diatribes about how we need to do more so that the next copy of MS Excel has more women on the developement team, the world remains silent as men are treated with hostility and slowly but forcefully pushed out of the careers responsible for educating our fucking children.

Vandechoz · 2017-11-24T18:14:13+00:00

It was my dream, too, until men like this were falsely accused. Luckily I realized that before I even went to college in the first place.

Smacktardius · 2017-11-24T19:38:08+00:00

Since when do little boys touch themselves? Oh right, they all do! But hey, my little boy couldn't possibly be that much of a sicko to wanna touch himself, he must have been taught by the male teacher. Yeah, that's it!

Some parents need to be shot. And any man that is stupid enough to get into teaching/dealing with minors/women on a regular basis is an idiot. The odds are stacked against you in this "I'm such a victim of everything" society we're creating.

2017-11-24T22:10:24+00:00

This is why Men don't go into child care.

This is why I got out of Child care and Education entirely.

Moonvie · 2017-11-24T17:22:59+00:00

This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but he can blame only himself and his career choice.

No sane person jumps into a bonfire and wonders why they got burned.

Whanny · 2017-11-24T08:00:38+00:00

Today, things are slowly getting better. I have post-traumatic stress disorder and still have the occasional panic attack, especially when other people's children say hello or try to talk to me. I even get them when dropping off and picking up my own kids from daycare or when taking them to singing and playgroups.

Nah mate it isn't PTSD, it is awareness. You were just naive before. This is how most men feel and it sucks society made it this way.

Mr_MRAnarchist · 2017-11-24T14:13:46+00:00

Jesus.. yes, it sucks what the parents did to him... but fuck man... grow a pair and move on with your life... if you are getting PTSD from just this, society doesn't need you reproducing. Another example of the damage feminization of men is doing...

Title	Being a male teacher was my dream - until I was falsely accused
Author	throwawaycomedian95
Upvotes	317
Comments	39
Date	November 23, 2017 9:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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