https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6eftl1/relationship_boundaries/

Thread i made yesterday!

Anyway long story short. I decided to call her and talk to her about this to set some boundaries, as soon as i started to talk about this her voice changed a bit. Became more angry like she was thinking " here we go again"

Anyway i tried to explain in calm manner way saying: About this guy Joe, well i really dont like you snapchatting him, her first respond was: im not!!

I told her: yes you are streak doesnt come unless you do so and he doesnt reach top friends unless you send him. She denied for some time i just kept my cool. I told her straight up: why do you think you need to lie to me about this? Why cant you just tell me the truth? I know how snapchat works.

Then she said that basic stuff: you promies me not to be mad? i said i would be angry about her lying to me.

She said she has been sending him snapchats, but no sexual ones and nothing flirty only of our dogs not even a selfie, I told her since she could lie about it in first place she can lie about that. I gave her 2 options: delete him or not snapchat him. Because she already lied once. She denied to do either and said i was controlling and had trust issues.. well her loss she lied and i don have time for that kind of bullshit. I expect truth no matter how hard it is.. we where together for a reason.

She said i just have to trust her then i took my final words and said then this is the end, you lied once and if you can lie about small shit like this you can lie about bigger issues if you would have told me truth from beginning i would have no problem with this. And left!

I know this may sound and be cold but there are plenty of girls out there for me.