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Feminist argues in favor of the Duluth model by it suggesting it is an utilitarian decision

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August 25, 2015
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Title Feminist argues in favor of the Duluth model by it suggesting it is an utilitarian decision
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Upvotes 94
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Date August 25, 2015 11:03 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
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[–]DevilishRogue 37 points38 points39 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Slavery can be a utilitarian decision.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was from the perspective of people at the time.

[–]Imnotmrabut 31 points32 points33 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The Duluth Model is flawed - so flawed as to lack any scientific or academic credibility. They can argue all they like, but it simply shows they are ideologically inculcated in a cult and victim mind set.

According to the manual (Duluth Manual), the basis for these beliefs came from a sample of 5 battered women and 4 men who had completed the Duluth program. This then became the empirical foundation of domestic violence practice: a sample of nine clients recently completing an ideologically infused intervention. The authors (and those who support this model) apparently do not realize the obvious problems with the samples' small size or lack of representativeness.

Donald G. Dutton, Kenneth Corvo, Corrigendum to “Transforming a flawed policy: A call to revive psychology and science in domestic violence research and practice” Aggression and Violent Behavior, Volume 12, Issue 2, March–April 2007, Page 257

[–]Targren 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

To be fair, I've read that even the author of it recognizes it for the flawed mess that it is now.

[–]Imnotmrabut 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you have that source?

[–]Targren 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

By determining that the need or desire for power was the motivating force behind battering, we created a conceptual framework that, in fact, did not fit the lived experience of many of the men and women we were working with. The DAIP staff [...] remained undaunted by the difference in our theory and the actual experiences of those we were working with [...] It was the cases themselves that created the chink in each of our theoretical suits of armor. Speaking for myself, I found that many of the men I interviewed did not seem to articulate a desire for power over their partner. Although I relentlessly took every opportunity to point out to men in the groups that they were so motivated and merely in denial, the fact that few men ever articulated such a desire went unnoticed by me and many of my coworkers. Eventually, we realized that we were finding what we had already predetermined to find.

-- Pence, Ellen (1999). "Some Thoughts on Philosophy". In Shepherd, Melanie; Pence, Ellen. Coordinating Community Responses to Domestic Violence: Lessons from Duluth and Beyond. Thousand Oaks, CA.: Sage. pp. 29–30

(as cited by Wikipedia)

[–]RedditorJemi 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Although I relentlessly took every opportunity to point out to men in the groups that they were so motivated and merely in denial, the fact that few men ever articulated such a desire went unnoticed by me and many of my coworkers. Eventually, we realized that we were finding what we had already predetermined to find.

Eventually? Really? You've got to be kidding me.

[–]Targren 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cognitive dissonance doesn't disappear overnight.

[–]garglemesh42 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is AgainstMensRights, what do you expect? Facts? Logic?

Nah, let's just scream about how men are wrong, men have all the power and all women are oppressed because people don't hold doors open for them anymore, or something.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah the old "its OK to break a few eggs in order to make an omelet" rationale.

ARREST ALL THE MENS!

Well isn't that special. This just another log on the roaring male disposability bonfire.

Simply put, the Duluth Model assumes that too many men are getting away with DV within the current system of justice, so all men need to be arrested if a complaint is made to the police. The rights of men are tossed in the trash based on an assumption that has long been proven to be false.

The Duluth Model is crap. Police can tell when DV has been committed. As a matter of fact, it really serves no purpose other than to enable women to enlist LEAs as weapon against their partners on a whim. This doesn't diffuse conflicts, it escalates them. Same goes for ROs (generally they go hand in hand).

Oh and yeah - Australia... Not shocked.

[–]double-happiness 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

the point of the Duluth model is to get a quick and dirty take on the situation, put it into a pre-set mould, and the government can deal with the majority of cases, even when it fails disastrously in the minority of cases

By comparison, male suicides in UK prisons massively outnumber women's, in the most recent figure in the source I found by 20:1 or even as much as 60:1 in 2008.

Yet feminists have got their knickers in so much of a twist over women's self-harm in UK prisons that they want to abolish women's prisons altogether.

They're 10 times more likely than men to self-harm in prison.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-politics/10015766/Isnt-it-time-to-abolish-most-womens-prisons.html

Research has shown that female offenders are far more likely to have suffered abuse than their male counterparts and suffer much higher rates of self-harm and mental illness.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/plight-of-women-in-jail-tackled-with-new-policy-on-sentencing-8544846.html

Completely glossing over the fact that men's suicide rates in prison dwarf women's by at least ten and in some years as much as 25-30 times.


Edit: I notice the Guardian has swapped the column headers for 'Male' and 'Total'. -_- If you download the spreadsheet the M:F ratio for all years is 1020:83 ≈ 12:1.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Research has shown that female offenders are far more likely to have suffered abuse than their male counterparts

Attorney: Have you ever been abused?

Female criminal: Well, no.

Attorney: I advice you to think very hard because if you have been you'll get a lot of sympathy from the jury.

Female criminal: Oh, I see, yes my father abused me as well as the man I killed.

[–]notacrackheadofficer 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hah. Just like how 90% of divorce cases have the guy accused of fomenting serial rape and murder across several continents.

[–]laudet 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That's a post from "Against Men's Rights". It's a sewer of hatred and bigotry.

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[–]laudet 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't ja know? It's supposed to ironic misandry. Because hatred against one particular group -- straight white males -- is A-okay. They're "punching up," even though I'm guessing most of the posters there are middle or upper class privileged white women. I started a factory job at age 13. I doubt most of those women have broken a nail on the job.

So yeah, it's "Ironic misandry." The only part missing is the irony. When white supremacists make "ironic" jokes about blacks, very few people find it funny. Evidently feminist jokes don't work so well either.

Make no mistake: AMR is punching down.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

openly worshiping lucifer too... even if its just sarcastic, it's very telling where their motivations come from.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Feminist argues in favor of the Duluth model by it suggesting it is an utilitarian decision

The whole point of Blackstone's Formulation is that justice cannot compromise on integrity, because once you do your problems multiply.

"It is more important that innocence should be protected, than it is, that guilt be punished; for guilt and crimes are so frequent in this world, that all of them cannot be punished.... when innocence itself, is brought to the bar and condemned, especially to die, the subject will exclaim, 'it is immaterial to me whether I behave well or ill, for virtue itself is no security.' And if such a sentiment as this were to take hold in the mind of the subject that would be the end of all security whatsoever." -John Adams

[–]Tmomp 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Next you're going to argue that there's value in following the Constitution or demand evidence instead of blindly believing every accusation a woman makes. After all if we had done that Rolling Stone's reputation would still be intact.

[–]Spoonwood 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So what your saying is that John Adams was a concern troll.

I'm joking, but that does seem like the mindset of those people.

[–]AvgGuy101 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, feminists really care about men's issues and stuff. Feminism is all about equality for everyone. /S

F*ckng hypocrites!!!

[–]Dnile1000BC 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The harsh truth is that men tend to work, even while they're being abused (and often times, this is part of the abuse - he slaves away at multiple jobs and she takes all of his money and humiliates him) so that means that they essentially don't cost the system as much as women do.

Well, if we're being as heartless as that, why not remove all socialised medicine altogether? From a purely utilitarian perspective, since women take up the most resources in society and don't contribute as much as they consume they should be denied basic health care if they can't pay for it and left to die in the streets.

This is feminism in all its glory.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you're being downvoted by social parasites, have an upvote sir

[+][deleted] 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]ChaosOpen 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"It's okay if you put a few innocent men in jail because a majority of the people will be guilty." Is this chick serious?

[–]Smitikus 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, whoever wrote that article hasn't done their research.

[–]Qui-Gon_Booze 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Surprised?

[–]Smitikus 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not in the slightest.

That doesn't mean I should accept the fact that people aren't doing basic research on topics. I still hold the ideal of people having a discussion from two points of a topic, being respectful and educated on the topic; mainly because that is how progress in these areas.

Maybe I'm just being silly and should expect less.

[–]Qui-Gon_Booze 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh I agree. I just have less faith in Humanity.

[–]andejoh 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, whoever wrote that article hasn't done their research.

Facts. I don't need facts. I am a feminist.

[–]Juan_Golt 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes sense. Why stop there?

Next we should give fathers custody by default, because women abuse children more often than men. Gendered programs should be designed to only see mothers as abusers.

We should have explicitly gendered hiring for high status positions, because women are more likely to have babies and quit working.

Think of the costs involved with all those women who get degrees only to immediately get married and not participate in the labor force. Really only men should be going to college right AMR? It's the utilitarian thing to do.

/S in case anyone is an idiot.

Side note. Why don't people realize that you can't justify a prejudiced system with the outcome of that prejudiced system? We only arrest men for domestic violence! Why? Because look at the statistics! Look how many men are getting arrested for domestic violence!

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[–]RedditorJemi 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How is a stubbornly incompetent, pseudo-scientific psychologizing of men's actions in DV cases necessary or even able to prevent a significant loss to the state from women's medical bills?

It's not. Very few women are going to end up with brain injuries as a result of DV, and he literally said himself that men work far more than women do. Which means that if a man gets taken off the job, say, because he spent a month in jail due to his wife's abuse, that represents a real loss in productivity. Whereas if a woman had to spend a month in jail (or a week - which is more likely), this would cost the state only the cost of jailing her if she's a non-working woman. His statement was literally self-refuting:

The harsh truth is that men tend to work, even while they're being abused (and often times, this is part of the abuse - he slaves away at multiple jobs and she takes all of his money and humiliates him) so that means that they essentially don't cost the system as much as women do. They don't get killed as often from abuse, and they don't get seriously injured as often or as in as many numbers as women do

As though someone being killed costs the state anything (other than the possible cost of cremation and/or autopsy - easily offset by a person no longer collecting healthcare at state expense). His whole statement literally implies the opposite of what he concludes - that the duluth model has a utilitarian benefit to the state. The first time I read the comment, I literally though 'how is he getting away with arguing against the Duluth model in /r/againstmensrights'? I literally had no way to interpret the comment in a pro-Duluth model way, and had to dismiss a lot of illogical crap to even make it make sense in my head.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I read all 19 comments up to the time I posted this and I really think the only way I'll understand this is if I spend about two or three hours researching. But what I seem to be gathering here is that this Duluth model is to favour the women in a dispute or battery case or something, because it... yeah, I am really not getting it. It sounds like a bunch of really intense bullshit that a misandrist tries to talk circles around people with until they're confused enough just to say "fine, just go".

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh. Okay, thanks. Clears that right up. Also, agreement.

[–]RedditorJemi 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The assumption is that the bigger more threatening person is more likely to be the abuser so they're the ones who are removed from the situation have their rights removed from them.

FTFY

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That's like the Australian Broadcast Corp arguing that they didn't present GamerGate's side of the story because it was too hard to find a GG'er who would speak to them. I.e. a blatant lie.

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