Hi /r/MensRights. This sub is the reason I came to reddit and was all I used it for initially, lately however I have started to become disillusioned with this sub and some of the posts within it.

I have been trying to spend time on other reddits that discuss similar issues to gain a broader perspective of peoples views and it has made me realise some things that tend to happen a lot on here.

I am seeing a lot of posts simply complaining about feminism/irrelevant news stories to men's rights...

There are a lot of petty posts that I would normally associate with third wave feminism e.g. "if the genders were reversed" which is related in issues of domestic violence etc but not when a male news reporter asks to be thrown by Ronda Rousey...

There also just doesn't seem to be enough discussion about important issues in my opinion. I am probably guilty of these points over my time here myself but my first post was about the right for men to opt out of alimony at the beginning of a relationship if they make it clear they do not want children. It rwcieved a big response and I loved the debate it sparked! I just don't feel this happens enough anymore although I would like to make it clear that I am not against this sub in any way; I just wish to discuss my thoughts on these topics?

Thanks! (Don't hate too much)