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[–][deleted] 57 points58 points59 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Respect doesn't come by gender"
Totally right there.
[–]elebrin 38 points39 points40 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The true test of manhood is how you treat a woman
Anyone saying "Real men do this thing" are full of shit, and I feel that anything they say can be safely ignored.
[–]Hypersapien 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real men ignore people who try to tell them what real men do.
[–]InWadeTooDeep 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What if the standards are the same for men and women?
[–]Rullknufs 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"The true test of womanhood is how you treat a man".
[–]dugie13 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Double standards at their finest. If I told this to a woman she'd say I'm misogynist.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah - that'd fly.
[–]TracyMorganFreeman 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real adults own their deeds and bear the consequences of them, and aren't limited to being defined by others.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real men do what they feel like doing.
[–]MonkeyCB 41 points42 points43 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just love hearing women define what a man is. I don't really care anymore, that shaming language only works for so long.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Women defining manhood is laughable at BEST.
[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
According to society, womanhood is inherited, while manhood has to be earned.
Nobody questions your womanhood, but everyone questions your manhood.
It fucking sucks.
[–]InWadeTooDeep 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are while men do.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Womanhood is about privileges, manhood is about obligations.
[–]MummasCumquat 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Big surprise. Now we're being shamed into... what? Holding the door open? Here's a tip: you can tell me what I am and what I'm not if I can do the same to you! Gonna guess that one won't go over to well.
EDIT: And show me the paper that would let me take out a full-page ad telling women what to do. Hell, gonna need the whole damn paper for what I've got to say.
[–]H2owsome 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For anyone wondering, the hindi line translates to "Don't you know whose son I am?", basically what you say if you want to brag about your lineage.
[–]oscillating000 19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Modern Feminists want equality only so long as they can blame all of their "problems" on men, and then tell men that it's their responsibility to fix all women's "problems," a mission which will be responded to with a firm "I don't need a man to fix my problems."
I don't know how people take this crap seriously.
[–]FreemanPontifex 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm just letting you know that I'm going to be indirectly quoting this comment for the rest of my life
[+]AConservativeMan -7 points-6 points-5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Does every modern feminist act that way? Like, EVERY single one?
[–]InWadeTooDeep 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Obviously not, but that is irrelevant; Majority rules.
[–]theskepticalidealist 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
India. 90% mental.
[–]Vance87 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
10% metal
[–]baserace 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
2% jazz
[–]AConservativeMan 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Does this mean I can find jazz metal?! Or is some jazz just insane?
[–]InWadeTooDeep 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes.
[–]theguywhoreadsbooks 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The country is in transition. There are a bunch of people with near medieval ideas sparring with people who are ultra-liberal. There are crazy, illogical statements from both sides. But, on the whole the country is a whole lot better than it was even 10 years ago.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
So if I don't respect Karla Faye Tucker, I'm half a man?
I will gladly be half a man, rather than respect a sociopath. This idea that we have to respect ALL women is asinine. I don't respect all men either, so why should I respect all women? Because vagina? To be a "real" man? No thank you.
I don't respect people because of genitalia. That's a pretty lame reason to respect someone.
[–]Azothlike 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Men are rash drivers, now?
Hasn't it been proven repeatedly that men get into less accidents per mile?
[–]InWadeTooDeep 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not exactly; Men 16-25 are worse in almost every way, but men 25+ are safer drivers, but men 25+ still drive enough to cause the majority of accidents.
Then it switches back at 65+.
[–]fruitjerky 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree strongly with the premise, but I think it would've been more impactful if their list were "positive" tropes like with the original ad. Amen to the end part though.
[–]mysteryroach 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Isn't there a huge problem with rape in India? Perhaps the person has a point, but it's hard to imagine having a problem with a poster like that. Sure, it's clearly not above scrutiny, but we all need to be a lot more reasonable and flexible with our convictions. This type of ad might be out of place in an American newspaper but not an Indian one, and whilst many men don't like what it has to say, and are well within their right to, I think we should at least be able to agree that in a place like India, this type of message actually does more good than harm.
They have a problem for sure but we don't know how big it is, there is too much bullshit around it.
[–]neoj8888 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Respect women? For what? Why would you blindly respect any individual or group of people?
[–]SimCity8000 -4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"have we ever asked what is womanhood?"
yes. every day.
http://thoughtcatalog.com/lydiana-inari/2014/05/the-10-qualities-of-a-good-woman/
http://ca.askmen.com/money/mafioso_100/140_mafia.html
http://jamesmsama.com/2014/05/05/10-ways-to-know-youre-dating-a-good-woman/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-logan-levkoff/womanhood_b_1135555.html
http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly-looking-women
http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/NEWSLETTER%20ARTICLES/women2date1.htm
http://www.desiringgod.org/conference-messages/the-ultimate-meaning-of-true-womanhood
http://www.buzzfeed.com/krystieyandoli/the-ultimate-guide-to-being-a-woman
it's dizzying.
[–]InWadeTooDeep 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
good woman ≠ real man
You should probably read things before trying to use them as a counterpoint, such as #5 which is entirely positive.
[–]SimCity8000 -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
real man does equal good man. they're the same thing. obviously any person with testicles and a penis is a real man who exists and is also male. .. but is he a real man? (as in a good man?).
[+]DJ_Fleetwood_MacBook -6 points-5 points-4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People in this sub often mock the 3rd wave feminism of western women but when something like this comes up, something that essentially says things we all would agree with but in a tone you dislike, we all mock it?
I am genuinely concerned that people in this sub do not care about equality and only want to feel like victims.
Outside of the "Treat Women" line these are all issues that men in this sub often post about, so why are so many people frustrated with it?
Further, if you look at this through the prism of India's rape problem, then doesn't this make sense as a PSA?
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[–]DJ_Fleetwood_MacBook -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very interesting. Any links on that? All I see are their issues with rape.
And what do you mean by Misandrist? As in very classical, traditional and stringent gender roles and expectations or something else?
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