“But I don't want sex””I don't really care for it” How to respond to this shit test

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-06-01T15:28:08+00:00

i will translate this for you. "i dont want sex" = "i dont want sex with you". its not a shit test. she just doesnt want you again, and shes trying to be nice about it. lay better pipe next time

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-06-01T16:09:52+00:00

Translation 1: "That wasn't really so great for me."

Translation 2: "I fucked you once to set the orbiter hook, now please orbit me like a good little beta."

omega_dawg93 · 2018-06-01T15:48:47+00:00

It means she's not into you. There is no point in forcing it if she rejects you straight out like that. In my experience, if the woman is into you, she will do it with you without even thinking. Been there done that.

TL;DR if woman makes sex difficult, she's not that into you.

Ricklogical · 2018-06-01T15:17:16+00:00

Next. Game other women. That is not a shit test that is a broken plate.

Leave her alone, she is no good for you.

As-You-Were · 2018-06-01T17:05:23+00:00

Either you were a bad lay or she just doesn’t find you attractive. Onto the next one!

BrazilRedPill · 2018-06-01T15:39:06+00:00

“Why are you thinking about sex when talking to me? I just want to show you my beer collection!”

When she comes, escalate and fuck her hard.

MrBowlfish · 2018-06-01T15:27:17+00:00

Ignore. Proceed as usual. Pay attention to their actions, not their words.

redhawkes · 2018-06-01T15:41:47+00:00

Your best play is not responding and soft nexting until she initiates.

You should read The Sex God Method, and apply.

Don't fall in the orbiter trap. In mean time, on to the next one.

chazthundergut · 2018-06-01T18:17:40+00:00

"Ok"

And stop texting her altogether. Next.

2018-06-01T18:36:07+00:00

I bet it wasn't a good fuck for her.

Next. Not a shit test.

chachaChad · 2018-06-01T17:57:24+00:00

The only response it to MOVE ON.

AaronKClark · 2018-06-01T15:41:37+00:00

She doesn't want it with you. Hard next.

ThanosIsBeta · 2018-06-01T17:13:27+00:00

Delete block and ghost

youcantdenythat · 2018-06-01T18:35:14+00:00

Need more details. Why did she say this? Out of the blue? Did you ask for a booty call?

She is explaining her feelings right now. That's why you should never ask for sex. She needs to be turned on before she wants sex. Text isn't going to cut it.

Tiberiusaurus · 2018-06-01T18:38:24+00:00

Goodbye

2018-06-01T19:38:27+00:00

Next immediately without going no contact. Just text "Ok, suit yourself." If she's just playing hard to get or something, she will come eventually. If she was not into the sex and not into you otherwise, then there's nothing to be done other than get other girls.

trtanon · 2018-06-01T22:17:51+00:00

These are some bad comments.

Girls make these statements all the time. It's how they feel in the moment. She might of just fucked another guy before texting you. Maybe you txt'd too much and came off as needy and it turned her off. Maybe her cat died.

MrBowlfish and BrazilRedPill nailed it. You have to simply ignore what women say and pay attention to actions. Otherwise you need a fulltime translator and no body has time for that shit. And even if you could afford a fulltime vagina translation machine, they'd just dislike you for caring too much about what they have to say.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2018-06-02T03:53:29+00:00

She's probably just sore from when you fucked her last time. Just text her back "tonight is a kind of blow job type of night any ways babe"

wawakaka · 2018-06-02T05:11:14+00:00

She dry as a desert for you

pass on this

Schhwing · 2018-06-02T06:23:07+00:00

You haven’t seduced her effectively. And/or she really doesn’t have a high sex drive.

Your challenge is to seduce her physically in that moment. With emotions and physicality. You can’t reason her out of that one.

MentORPHEUS · 2018-06-01T16:48:28+00:00

Just give a cheery, "OK, your loss." type of response, and continue looking for women who do care for sex, with you.

Musicgoon · 2018-06-01T18:32:10+00:00

I would respond with,"Hmm, lame", then I would hit up and bang a few more plates...

Don't spend any more time with her unless she's going to fuck you.. She's a waste of time..

Title	“But I don't want sex””I don't really care for it” How to respond to this shit test
Author	CashMeOnRedditDD
Upvotes	24
Comments	59
Date	June 1, 2018 3:14 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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