Is being white automatically attractive?

Professional_Goat333 · 2023-06-20T19:50:53+00:00

I think white women are more attractive than women of other races. I'd probably date a fat or really ugly white woman because I think they're...

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But let’s look at the GENERAL picture. The MAJORITY.

You might find this hard to believe but I come from a great home life. My parents have been married for 25 years, together since teenagers. My father, a black man, is amazing. He’s hardworking. Involved. Loyal. Loving. Intelligent. A great husband and father. I could write a whole book about how great my dad is and how much I love him. But I know that majority of black men are not like him. Your statistics. Your records. What you guys say and what you guys do which everyone can see today thanks to the internet, is on display 24/7.

Could I search for a needle in a haystack and find a great black man? Yes. But that would probably be a lot of searching and lot of trauma endured to do so. I don’t want to be 40 still looking for that “good black man” like so many black women do. I want to get married young in a good amount of time (no forever girlfriending). Then I want to have kids in wedlock. And I want them to have a masculine father that protects for them and provides for them. Who is both reliable and consistent. Who is honest, loyal, and faithful. Based on stats, I’m more likely to find that in a non black man and I’m more likely to have worse outcomes with a black man, especially if we were to get married. And this is why I am strongly for black women dating out of their race. Men can do whatever. I don’t really care what other people choose to do in terms of who they want to date or not. It really doesn’t have anything to do with me. If the questions were reversed, it definitely wouldn’t affect me. I have had absolutely no issues dating or being in relationships with white men. I’m pretty, fun, intellectual, feminine, and brave. I’m never had an issue with white men asking me out on dates or finding me attractive regardless of what anyone wants to say. I’ve always done well with Hispanic and Asian men as well.

We only get one life. I’m not wasting mine wishing and hoping for something far and few.

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Figured that so im gonna tell you this what youre talking about has nothing to do with race and has to do with the area most the people grew up in. I grew up in philly and later moved to the suburbs and i will tell you the black people are way different and the only time they werent was when they were raised in the hood then later moved to the suburbs like i did and i could always tell who grew up where just by looking at them and so could they. My first day in the suburban school the Mexican and black hood kids from trailer homes dapped me up and invited in they group like they just knew i was one of them.

THOSE are the typa people your talking about and its a reason for it and its not race philadelphia is like 70% black and hispanic and we all grew up wit the same kinda homes in our drug and gang infested poor neighborhoods this is where that behavior comes from this is not exclusive to black men we are just more prone to it since black people are more likely to have lived or live in these neighborhoods. And you defended the women in this situation but people always act like the women are innocent when if you from here you know the woman just as big as problems as the men. They’re literally just as dumb as the dudes yall blame for this look at all the men who prove this right and then look at the women theyre dating and tell me they seem more capable and reliable of raising a family? And guess what the women there LIKE THOSE KIND OF DUDES they love toxic gang members drug dealers who treat them badly who they then get pregnant by and he leaves without any consequences because we dont take nun to court in hood and then the cycle repeats.

All the black people you see who prove this right 9/10 grew up in the hood like nick cannon as you said. A black born and raised suburbanite likely wont act or think this way unless like i said before he moved to the burbs later on in life so you wouldnt have too look for only white dudes just look for them good boy suburbanites

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Oh nah dem white worshippers definitely do exist its not common but it exists i mostly see it in african or caribbean men idk i think it has something to do with not being able to be associated with them in the past at least for them idk whats wrong wit the people from your school. White worshippers dont exist in black neighborhoods tho its actually the opposite black people in the hood be just as discriminatory and racist as white people we just dont get called out for it. Another reason for it could be not growing up around your own people, ik lots of black kids in white neighborhoods go through the “white girl/boy phase” thats why it’s important to grow up around your own race, being different and alone can make you hate your identity and they project that onto other people, nobody who grows up around their own people says or does that stuff.

I thought you were referring to black men being deadbeat fathers and bad for relationships like the stereotypes around black men basically so i had to say that cuz its not that surface level as it seems on the outside looking in. Also had to say that because you said if black women wanted family structure and all that dont date black men but they contribute to the bad structure just as much so it should be applied to both groups.

And also quick question arent you biracial? Shouldnt they have let you off the hook since mixed people were fine in their book?

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Again, had to google that dude and his family.

He's white, and his wife Paula is not black, she's heavily mixed.

White genes are not as "recesive" as most people believe. They just get darkened a bit in the first generation of mixed children.

A child who's half white and half black has a higher chance to come up looking more black than white. There are still chances for the child to come up looking FULLY white, like a 25% chances if I can recall well, and another 25% of chances of him coming up fully black, but in 50% of the times the child will come up as mixed, with light-black skin, curly hair and brown eyes (and sometimes green or hazle eyes, think about brazilian or cuban people).

Then, when that child grows up, it depends on who he/she marries.

If he/she marries a black partner, the kids will inherit only 25% of white genes, because the mixed individual carries 50/50, and the black partner contributes 100% black genes. The kids Will then be only 25% white and 75% black. Then they have 7.5% of chances of coming up fully white, 14.5% of chances of coming up "mixed", and 75% of chances of coming up fully black.

But if the mixed person gets married to a white partner, his kid is going to have 75% of white genes. Here the roles reverse, and the kid has a 75% chance of looking fully white, and 14.5% chances of looking racially ambiguous, with the 7.5% of chances of coming up black.

After a three generations of "white washing", a person is basically "fully white", with 87.5% of white DNA and only 12.5% of black DNA that it's still there but has very slim chances to manifest at a phyisiometric level.

That's basically why this "white genes are recesive" is a myth.

Think about coffee and milk, if you put coffee and milk on equal amounts on a cup, the mix is CLEARLY not white as milk. But it doesn't look like coffee neither right?

If you add more coffee to the point the liquid start falling from the borders, you will get at some point a cup of coffee again. This is what happens when you pair a mixed race person with a black person.

But, if instead of coffee, you repeat the process with milk, at some point the milk will replace the coffee, and you will get a cup of milk. This is what happens when you pair a mixed person with a white partner.

It's not that white genes are recesive, is just that standars for "whiteness" are just too strict in some countries. For example, in Portugal, Italy, Spain or Greece, Cristiano Ronaldo is considered "white", because he has white features and has a considerable amount of white genes on him, despite he has olive skin.

In the US, Cristiano Ronaldo wouldn't be white.

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I agree with you for the most part. The parent comment mentions Patrick Mahomes and Drake. Both biracial people. I was just pointing to another biracial person who had a son with a white person.

Second I don’t know where you are but in the US most black people have significant white admixture. If most black people had a child with a white person that kid would be more white than black genetically.

I personally don’t think most biracial people look more black than white, I think we are conditioned to notice black features more. If they can’t pass for white we see the blackness. If you were to take these same people to a place where the population is majority 100% black, they would see easily see the white phenotypes.

Finally we sometimes see black phenotypes even when it doesn’t come from blackness. Drake and Mahomes both have wide noses that people attribute to their blackness. Both of them get their noses from their white moms.

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Finally we sometimes see black phenotypes even when it doesn’t come from blackness. Drake and Mahomes both have wide noses that people attribute to their blackness. Both of them get their noses from their white moms.

I agree with this.

I have italian piedmontese ancestries from my grandmother's side, and while my brothers and I have come out looking invariably "white" (I look like a mediterranean/italian blue eyed brunette, the second brother has hazzle hair and green eyes with tanned skin, and the third brother has pale skin, blond hair and grey eyes) I have cousins who have inherited very dark skined features from grandma, including a quite curly hair.

The funniest part of all is that my cousins father is of germanic descents, and he has one kid who looks like my grandma, and another kid who looks exactly like him. If it wasn't that they both share some common (very white) facial features with their father and, in fact, the same rare type of blood, you would absolutely believe the guys are from different fathers haha.

Now, piedmontese italian are well known for being some of the "darkest" white people all around.

Sounds funny, but if you're ever been to Italy, you may have found dark skined people with white features walking around. The view is, kid you not, fucking shocking.

If you saw one of them, you would inmediately think they are african people, or may be some sort of mix of the later, but there is one small detail...

Lots of them have blue and grey eyes, and as we know, the african race cannot produce blue eyes, unless extreme (and exceptionally rare) cases of albinism.

Now, when my cousins and I were in America, my darker cousin was constantly told he was "black". Not dark, but "black", as in, of african origins, because he has a wide nose and dark skin.

When I told a black couple that my cousin did not had any black ancestry (as far as we know) they would tell us it was impossible, because whites can't really produce black features, without even considering white people actually produce the most diverse range of facial features in which wide noses and even dark skin can also be part of (unless of course, you do not consider italian, spaniard and greek people "whites", which is ridiculous since they are the first "whites" we have knowdelege of), and that any child can get a darker skin tone from another darker, yet not "african", parent (because dark skin is NOT exclusive to african people, as we can see in native american, piemontese italian or causasian/semitic people).

Now, you put my cousins nose in a blond, blue eyed dude and nobody in the US would doubt for a second he's white, but since he has dark skin, suddenly, he's black, which we found really funny.

His younger brother has hazzle eyes, blond hair and pale skin. And a wide nose. Like his father and his brother.

They share 99.9% of their genes, which are european genes nontheless. Yet in some parts of the world, one of them is black and the other is white.

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One of the most dramatic patterns occurs among black newlyweds: Black men are twice as likely as black women to have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity (24% vs. 12%). This gender gap has been a long-standing one – in 1980, 8% of recently married black men and 3% of their female counterparts were married to someone of a different race or ethnicity.

A significant gender gap in intermarriage is apparent among Asian newlyweds as well, though the gap runs in the opposite direction: Just over one-third (36%) of Asian newlywed women have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity, while 21% of Asian newlywed men do. A substantial gender gap in intermarriage was also present in 1980, when 39% of newly married Asian women and 26% of their male counterparts were married to someone of a different race or ethnicity.

Among Asian newlyweds, these gender differences exist for both immigrants (15% men, 31% women) and the U.S. born (38% men, 54% women). While the gender gap among Asian immigrants has remained relatively stable, the gap among the U.S. born has widened substantially since 1980, when intermarriage stood at 46% among newlywed Asian men and 49% among newlywed Asian women.

Among white newlyweds, there is no notable gender gap in intermarriage – 12% of men and 10% of women had married someone of a different race or ethnicity in 2015. The same was true in 1980, when 4% of recently married men and 4% of recently married women had intermarried.

As is the case among whites, intermarriage is about equally common for newlywed Hispanic men and women. In 2015, 26% of recently married Hispanic men were married to a non-Hispanic, as were 28% of their female counterparts. These intermarriage rates have changed little since 1980.

WHITE WOMEN ARE THE DEMOGRAPHIC LEAST LIKELY TO MARRY OUTSIDE THEIR RACE.

Black women and Asian men tend to be the demographics that get the least responses in dating apps.

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2017/05/18/1-trends-and-patterns-in-intermarriage/

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Black men themselves have said this. Watch interviews of black men who say this. Read the comments of the interviews agreeing. Read articles. Read books. Listen to podcasts. This is black men saying they view being with white women as a prize and an elevation in society.

And no this isn’t a cucking thing. White women single motherhood rates have accelerated tremendously the past two decades, along with the WW/BM marriage and the insanely high divorce rate among this pair (more than any other interracial pairing). Even from a social standpoint it’s evident. Lots of white moms with half black kids going off about the absentee black fathers on social media. And their grown biracial children talking about their horrible black fathers on social media as well. Many of these videos and posts that I’m referring to have gone viral multiple times over the past few years.

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Black men themselves have said this. Watch interviews of black men who say this. Read the comments of the interviews agreeing. Read articles. Read books. Listen to podcasts. This is black men saying they view being with white women as a prize and an elevation in society.

I don't watch podcast or read about stuff like that so I don't know, you will have to provide actual research data on this because anecdotes don't confirm that a majority of black men think that way. You brought up Nick Cannon elsewhere but Cannon's views are his own and he hasn't even dated a white lady from what I have seen, he seems to prefer mixed race women. Cannon's views on WW don't reflect on most black men any more than his antisemitism reflects on all black men

And no this isn’t a cucking thing. White women single motherhood rates have accelerated tremendously the past two decades, along with the WW/BM marriage and the insanely high divorce rate among this pair (more than any other interracial pairing).

White women's single motherhood rate is accelerating but you can't attribute that to black men for a few reasons. The main one is that white women's rising single motherhood rate match the general rise single motherhood rate in fact the rise in white single motherhood(+6.5% from 22.1 to 28.6) is around the general rise in the whole country(+6.6% from 33.2 to 39.8) and it has mostly levelled off or decreased slightly since 2016. The next reason is that white women aren't attracted to black men like that, they strongly prefer their own men . As for BM in IR marriage, it has increased by at most 7% over the past 2 decades which is hardly an acceleration and I highly doubt all of that increase can be attributed to WW/BM. As for the divorce rate, while the BM/WW divorce rate it higher than WM/WW and BW/WM, the difference between BW/WM and BM/WW isn't statistically significant, it may or may not be due to the small sample size though and the divorce rate for both IR pairings is lower than BM/BW. I think from all the data I have brought I have shown that the rise in white single motherhood cannot be attributed to black men, if not state your objections and bring your own data.

Even from a social standpoint it’s evident. Lots of white moms with half black kids going off about the absentee black fathers on social media.

Yeah and there are also lots of BM/WW marriages on social media that are fine with the father with his kids: 1,2,3,4,5,6, in fact for the last one some accounts on white supremacist/alt right twitter tried to deceptively use it as proof of her being a single mom because there was one video of her with her kid and the father was there. Both of our anecdotes aren't evidence by the way, there can't be an actual conclusion on if white women being left single moms at a high rate by black men without a study being done on it and if the father is still in the child's life either financially or shared custody.

And their grown biracial children talking about their horrible black fathers on social media as well. Many of these videos and posts that I’m referring to have gone viral multiple times over the past few years

There are also examples of biracial children talking about how racist their white fathers are, heck Meghan Markle is the most high profile biracial with a white dad and he wasn't in her life. All this being said I'll reiterate and say that we can determine if black men are bad father to their mixed race children with a study

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White South American countries are a bad rap for black expats when it comes to dating white local girls. Women here are very different to american or european women (specially the white ones) as they do not fetishize blackness near as much as their american/european peers, and they have been raised quite differently too and do not consume the anti-racist media.

As a 33 years old man living in Argentina and Uruguay, I've seen two or may be three WWBM couples in my life, and unless you watch american entertainment industry you won't see those neither in argentinian-uruguayan TV, commercials or so, and I have yet to come across an argentinian or uruguayan dude who has a fetish for black women or "yellow fever".

This is funny, because according to Reddit, white women have a black fetish and white men have an asian fetish, and having been in the US, I can definetly attest to some of it.

But IMO, these "fetishes" are caused by american media, since here where the media doesn't portray interracial couples at all, people stick to their own race even more, and when they date across racial groups, which is rare, it's always the white argentinian/uruguayan with native person of the same country.

White people here are taught from early age to be proud of their ancestries and cultural heritage, which certainly can come off as "white supremacist beliefs" to american or european media, but in reality it's more like "be proud of who you are without disrespecting others" and that's it. This is the mindset not only of white southern american but also native ones too. Peruvian, paraguayan and bolvian people are hella proud of their ancient native bloodlines, so much that their women and men wouldn't touch the most good looking white argentinian or uruguayan with a ten foot pole.

A good example of this is how racial pride plays a huge role in selecting players for national sport teams, specially football. This is why the Washington Post was asking, during the FIFA World Cup, why Argentina didn't had any black athletes in the national team, and an actual argentinian pro footballer answered "because Argentina is a country, not a Disney movie".

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Well if you mean cuckolding as in, women cheating on their partners, yeah, I would guess it happens here as in pretty much every other place in the world haha.

Now, if by "cuckold" you mean the american meaning of the word, where married or partnered women have sex with black men to humilliate their husbands, yeah, people here don't even have an idea that fetish actually exists.

Now that you mention it, I actually learned what "cucking" was when I was in the US, years before the pandemic. I remember some black dudes in our friend group mocking the white guys because of it, and when I asked they pulled a cellphone and with a quick search they found out some porn videos and yeah, there were tons of videos of that type, bot professional and amateur "home-made" too.

You know, at that moment It really got me thinking, because it was in a point in US history where most people on both sides of the political landscape would be fixiated with the word "cuck", both democrats and republicans would throw it at each other and I was like... "What's really going on here? Are all american men into black dudes banging their wives or is it proyection?"

But yeah, I figured out at the end that, while it's not as prevalent as some people may make it seem, it is a good point to debate how culture can shape the way we think and even express sexually.

Don't get me wrong, there are lots of social dynamics to factor in that can explain why this is happening.

Some of the stuff that play a major role in this new "national" sport are definetly culture (who's very "pro-black" and "anti-white" to a degree that, actually, can make a foreing man like me who don't have a horse in that race actually... Cringe) but also I feel there is a sense of racial revenge on the side of black men, some kind of "pay-back" for eslavery, mixed with a bit of internalized racism and inferiority complex, and on the other hand, a feeling of "white guilt" from white men, with a deeply rooted sense of racial superiority too.

And let me tell you, I think this fetish is mainly driven not by white women, but white men and black men indeed.

It's like, white men have to find a niche for black men in their society so black men who fail academically and on a social level can have, at least, some social capital over white men, thus, making white men "not racist at all".

And that's how white american men, in american society, put black men in the "less smart than me, but on the other hand more physically gifted and athletically superior than me" category.

White men in America asume, consciously or not (and invariably wrong) that black american men are athletically and physically superior, to a degree that may be, again... "Cringe", to a foreing man like me.

Also, as a note, this attitude permeates pretty much every social sphere, to the point you can tell black men are way more confident (and even sometimes quite cocky) than white men even walking the streets. Lots of white men would actually be afraid of stand their ground against black men because they think black men are more agressive, stronger and dominant.

No wonder why every sport american watch is overwhelmingly black dominated.

Since early ages, white people in North America, but specially white men, are conditioned to think "blacks are bigger, stronger, faster and better" at every physical feat, and they turn that a fetish in the bedroom. Women just follow the men, and white women learn to fetishize black men from white men. Simple.

What does happen in South America?

It's exactly the opposite.

In fact, the greatest football player of all times, and probably the greatest sportman that has ever walked the Earth (since football is the biggest and most popular sport in the world, hence the most competitive too) it's a white argentinian dude actually. Lionel Messi.

This dude makes a living on obliteraring entire teams of the most proeficient black athletes around the world (and of course, any other race of athletes for that matter) and not only that, but he has been going it for the past two decades consistently.

So you get the idea...

It's like, the average white south american doesn't buy this idea that black people are physically superior and all that, because we know we have actual, real athletes.

But just look at the Washington Post reaction, like I mentioned before, attempting to shame Argentina for not having any black players in their teams.

It's not like they were asking why Argentina has no brown players (because they do) or why Argentina doesn't have any asian players, since the asian community in Argentina is twenty times bigger than the black community (around 200.000 asian against 15.000 african).

They were complaining that Argentina didn't have any black players (and why should they?) and were even more mad when the argentinian squad beated the "fully african" french squad on the finals.

It's like if all the US media is constantly trying to force others to think, somehow, that "black is better", and when you think it's not, they call you "racist".

It makes absolute sense then that american are so much into this "cuck fetish", like... Dude, you're fixiated with "equality", "diversity", "black athletes" and interracial porn and feelings of racial revenge.

I mean...

What could be the outcome of this mix right?

[–]Throw_AwayDiscussion1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"Some of the stuff that play a major role in this new "national" sport are definetly culture (who's very "pro-black" and "anti-white" to a degree that, actually, can make a foreing man like me who don't have a horse in that race actually... Cringe) but also I feel there is a sense of racial revenge on the side of black men, some kind of "pay-back" for eslavery, mixed with a bit of internalized racism and inferiority complex, and on the other hand, a feeling of "white guilt" from white men, with a deeply rooted sense of racial superiority too."

I agree 100%. In their mind it's for what the white man did to their ancestors and the only way to get payback is to cuck white men from white women. Although, most white women don't like blacks as white women are the least to date outside of their race. Porn ≠ Real Life.

"Also, as a note, this attitude permeates pretty much every social sphere, to the point you can tell black men are way more confident (and even sometimes quite cocky) than white men even walking the streets. Lots of white men would actually be afraid of stand their ground against black men because they think black men are more agressive, stronger and dominant."

Yep this is true 100% from my experience. Because of all the media showing how violent they are, aggressive, and whatnot. I knew a Colombian man who was born and raised in Colombia who didn't care about them and would get into fights with them. My mother says it's an African American problem, and that blacks back in our home country are not like that because they keep to themselves and the culture is different.

"But just look at the Washington Post reaction, like I mentioned before, attempting to shame Argentina for not having any black players in their teams.

It's not like they were asking why Argentina has no brown players (because they do) or why Argentina doesn't have any asian players, since the asian community in Argentina is twenty times bigger than the black community (around 200.000 asian against 15.000 african).

They were complaining that Argentina didn't have any black players (and why should they?) and were even more mad when the argentinian squad beated the "fully african" french squad on the finals."

I remember hearing about this and the outcry about why there wasn't any black players in Argentina. Maybe because Argentina cares more about talent, and as you said, the African community is small.

It's like if all the US media is constantly trying to force others to think, somehow, that "black is better", and when you think it's not, they call you "racist".You need to have an African or you're racist.

African Americans also play into this by saying "racism" "racist" when they don't get their way. Not all, but it's said enough that it feels like that by playing victim.

[–]FlyV891 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I knew a Colombian man who was born and raised in Colombia who didn't care about them and would get into fights with them.

Haha well I can relate, while I was in the US I would get constantly in troubbles because of this, and my white pals would think I was kinda crazy for it, and a black friend said "you white got hands" haha.

My other latino friends would just mind their bussiness and black dudes would do theirs, but me being white (or "white passing") probably gave them this idea that I was an average american white guy. It was actually eye opening how many black dudes just backed off as soon as they learned I wasn't american.

The same happened in Spain and England with people of foreign backgrounds. They would bully locals quite a lot, but when they tried that with me I just stood my ground and they were scared.

Now, I understand people in Europe and North America may freak out because, you know, certain demographics do carry guns and so, and you're not used to violence as much as latinos do. To be honest no one pulled a gun on me while I was in the US but I wouldn't have been surprised neither, it's everyday life here in my country to be treatened at gun point, so it's nothing I haven't seen before.

Again, nothing against african american, most black people I've met are chill and down to earth, but yes, some black men certainly get off on bullying white men, and this tension between racial groups is instigated by culture and the media too. There is this subtle idea floathing around that, in some way, black men run the shit up there, it's weird, but you can kinda "sense it" you know what I mean? Speaking as a trully foreign dude I mean, you can clearly see this attitude among white men like "do not piss off that black dude, they can kick your ass".

I remember getting into a fight with a bunch of dudes at a bar once because they were clearly on one of my friend's aquantaince girlfriend while the dude was sit right next to her. They were three dudes around 25-30 years old, they just walked towards the couple, made a small chat with the dude, then just rounded the girl and started being overtly flirty and "touchy". The dude was just sitting there trying to not look at the situation, and it was so weird that it made all the people in the bar really akward.

I say "WTF" and just stood up, walked to them and politely told them that the girl was with her boyfriend, that they should cut the show and leave them alone, and one of them replied "mind your bussines pussy ass" or something like that haha... Oh boy, not with me.

I've seen countless situations like that in the spam of a year and a half in the US. Kid you not, the situation is "cringe-worthy".

[–]Throw_AwayDiscussion1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I hear stuff like that as well. If they see white guys have hands, they might become cool with you and whatnot. Black guys see white guys as easy to bully I agree. They see them as weak, wimpy, and whatnot. If they meet someone from Argentina, Chile, Uruguay, Southern Brazil, Eastern Europe, Caucasus (Especially from the Caucasus.). Assuming they were raised there, It's a whole different ball-game since they aren't exposed to what Americans and Western Europeans are. I think if you're a white guy raised in the countryside it's different as well. Those guys will fight to tooth and nail and aren't afraid as much. Those redneck type of guys? Yeah they aren't afraid, racist maybe but definitely not pussy. I understand what you mean by "I mean, you can clearly see this attitude among white men like "do not piss off that black dude, they can kick your ass". Some people will completely avoid black people alone for this reason.

I don't understand how Western Europeans can be like that, stand up for yourselves if not, for your damn country. It reminds me of that black guy who went to Japan and locals targeted him even putting him in a headlock.

I'm surprised about being at gun point in Argentina. From a foreigners perspective but still Latin American, I always assumed it was a safe country and there is little to no crime. Being held a gun point? It is something I would never think about happening in Argentina.

Yeah when you're with your girlfriend and people coming up chatting and trying to get her away from you, you have to stand up for the both of you or she will start to doubt your masculinity and see you as easy to walk on. Props to you for standing up for him though. Hope you gave him a word of advice if something like that happens again.

[–]FlyV891 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Being held a gun point? It is something I would never think about happening in Argentina.

Really? Oh well, think twice then.

Also, important piece of information, guns are banned here, but lots of people (and I mean LOTS of people) still carry ilegally, and on both sides I mean, the bad guys and the good guys too.

This is important for foreigners, since yeah when they hear there is a gun restriction here they asume guns do not exist at all here, which is not really accurate.

Now, most people are not going to pull one on you just because you want to start a fight with them (thou they will absolutely give you an ass woop) but there are men out there who basically don't give a fuck and would do it any day.

I've seen quite a lot of tourists get in troubbles just for not understanding local culture and traditions, for example a spaniard dude who wanted to go to Independiente's stadium with a Racing T-shirt, asuming it was alrite because "back in Spain he would wear Barça t-shirts in the Santiago Bernabéu". Yeah, he could have gotten shot to death easily for such stupidity here.

All in all, Argentina is a relatively safe country, which the same homicide rate of the US I mean.

The difference with places like Brazil or Mexico for example, is that crime here for the most part tend to be organized, unlike other latin american countries in which crime is not organized at all and thieves and drug dealers end up taking it against the population. Here we have more gang on gang crime and fights for territory and bussineses (specially argentinian football gangs, called "barrabravas", who live like rich men and basically have rockstar status among the population).

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I think we’re in the same book, just on two different pages. What you’re saying is correct and what I’m saying is correct. Just in Western societies, where black men are on the bottom of the male totem pole and white men are on top, majority of black men seek white women because they’re white. Similar to op, their look, their weight, etc doesn’t matter like it would for say, a black woman. The white woman’s whiteness is a good trade off for them because they think it makes them closer to white men on the totem pole and everyone but them knows it doesn’t. That’s all I’m saying.

Passporting is another topic. The value of whiteness decreases because it’s not as important in other countries. Their money is more important and because they have money, they’ll be treated like the white men they wish they were in western society.

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Title	Is being white automatically attractive?
Author	Professional_Goat333
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Date	June 20, 2023 7:50 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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