Most important factors in dating ranked

ApprehensiveMusic351 · 2023-06-30T09:00:12+00:00

I never bought into the height thing until recently. I work with a guy who is in his 40's with a pretty unattractive face and a man-child personality. But he's 6'5" and holy shit does he hook up like crazy with a bunch of women. And they are mostly in their early to mid twenties too. These women don't stay with him for long but he gets chance after chance after chance with a fair share.

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-06-30T09:16:21+00:00

Height
Looks
Money / Status
Confidence
Personality

thotswillthot · 2023-06-30T15:25:56+00:00

Depending on the woman this order is Mitch match

mewbestpokeman · 2023-06-30T17:33:14+00:00

money, confidence, personality

JFL, top 3 should have height looks and race.

HereBeToblerone · 2023-07-01T02:52:52+00:00

Neurotypicality should be on the list. I'm decent looking and get many matches and first impressions, but struggle getting any further due to no social skills and no life. But looks are still on top since I actually manage to get girls interested using only basement selfies on my tinder.

l00ks-p1lled · 2023-06-30T11:47:27+00:00

I believe Face is better than Height, but in general it's a trade off between them. If you're not short a conventionally good looking face is better because it will make girls genuinely interested. Height is more something girls like to show off, it doesn't have the same sexual impact

Ok_Cycle225 · 2023-06-30T11:17:53+00:00

Money / Status

Lol wrong. The proper list is

Height
Looks
Money / Status
Confidence & Personality are equal

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-06-30T14:20:33+00:00

Status/Money
Looks
Height
Personality
Confidence

I don't think you can honestly look at any average or below average famous guy with a smokeshow wife and say that status isn't most important.

TokensWithAmethyst · 2023-06-30T15:04:02+00:00

Height is the most important because, at 6ft+, you can outreach any of your other flaws. If you’re not an anorexic rake and you’re tall, you can be ugly, bald, etc., and still have some attraction from women. I’ve witnessed this throughout my life - all of the guys who are supposedly ugly/below average who have attractive/somewhat attractive women around them have been tall.

That’s why I would say it’s no.1, because none of the other masculine traits can compensate for every other shortcoming. Good looks will never compensate for being 5ft3. Wealth likewise will never compensate for it. And even very good looking guys who are average or below average height can encounter problems in the modern dating market. You can’t “just be confident” if you’re immediately viewed as unmanly.

People who aren’t tall maybe haven’t noticed the special treatment that even ugly tall guys get - they’re always treated like they’re men. It’s something primal in a woman when they have to look up at a guy, they become submissive and apologetic for no reason, whether they think he’s hot or not. That’s where the whole “not sure if he’s attractive or just tall” thing came from - 90% of tall guys are ugly, but it doesn’t matter.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-06-30T15:38:46+00:00

1.Status

2.Height

3.Looks

4.Money

5.Confidence

6.Personality

RatDontPanic · 2023-07-01T01:16:47+00:00

Height
Looks
Confidence
Money / Status
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Personality

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-07-01T16:47:59+00:00

I think these things can shift around with age. Like for younger women I don't think money ranks higher than looks because they'd probably be more likely to fuck some cute guy working at McDonalds even if their ideal is a TikTok celebrity. Older women might take money/status over height. I guess tbf it wouldn't be her ideal, but maybe if he makes a good stepfather or something, which is where confidence and personality can also shine. Or younger women wanting a man to make her laugh and be fun to hang out with.

However, definitely won't see me denying that height is generally at the top for most wanted traits. Money and status are also super valuable. And then confidence/personality kinda get assumed as long as you have height, looks, and money but without those things just being a good guy who is outgoing and sure of himself might not mean as much.

One-Store2972 · 2023-07-26T00:53:36+00:00

Sounds about right :(

Title	Most important factors in dating ranked
Author	Affectionate_Web624
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Date	June 30, 2023 7:24 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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