There is no such thing as a "nice guy"

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-18T17:11:28+00:00

Yes. As in, "You're a really nice guy, but....." Translation: I'm not sexually attracted to you. FOAD. Don't contact me again.

And "He is such a nice guy. But I just wasn't feeling it, you know? We just weren't vibing." Translation: I wasn't sexually attracted to him. I hope I never see him again.

If a girl is not showing you clear indicators of interest in the first 5 minutes, she's not sexually attracted to you. Disengage and move on.

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2023-09-18T21:42:40+00:00

No, Nice Guys do exist. They are the simpering dude who thinks just being nice and doing stuff for her gets him laid. They are throwing relationshit benefits at women in the hope of getting laid.

Don't do that. Do not give away all the benefits of being with you without her infact being with you. This is called being an asshole. Be an asshole.

Apprehensive_Row6025 · 2023-09-19T03:13:21+00:00

Insert hello HR meme: https://preview.redd.it/n5arx78j6od81.jpg?auto=webp&s=59f9f0d7c58d1288f260a6eacc5acf30722d6afe

MrBrittle · 2023-09-18T18:08:15+00:00

Yes there is.

He's the kind, friendly young man who isn't ugly enough to be considered a creepy, but also isn't hot enough to be attractive

Normally nice guys while young are friendzoned by younger women, and as they get older they start to be seen as husband material by older women.

RopeorDope1 · 2023-09-18T17:19:24+00:00

Strange way to cope, but sadly, reality says otherwise. Nice guys do exist, and if the shoe fits, it's time to work on yourself.

Truth hurts, but you'll survive.

Fourthgood_Martial · 2023-09-19T19:25:17+00:00

"You're a nice guy, but..." is typically used by women in the hopes that they can get out of an uncomfortable situation, like finding out a guy who was manipulating them with friendship in the hopes of getting in their pants ("fuckzoned") can get out without shit hitting the fan.

Unfortunately, that doesn't even work a lot of the time...

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/minnesota-woman-killed-co-worker-parking-lot-rejecting-repeated-romant-rcna55413

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-09-19T19:27:28+00:00

A.K.A I'm not sexually attracted to you but don't want to hurt your feelings.

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-20T00:49:58+00:00

I wish I could date a guy like you. Not you though. Yikes. I meant a Chad with your personality, plus a high socioeconomic status.

Title	There is no such thing as a "nice guy"
Author	-snickerss-
Upvotes	41
Comments	33
Date	September 18, 2023 4:55 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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