Why do people virgin shame?

EverVigilant1 · 2023-10-09T13:23:12+00:00

People virginshame only men. When a man hasn't had sex, it's because no one wants to have sex with him. The number of women a man's had sex with is a prime measure of a man's worth and value.

Men didn't make it this way. Women did. Women are the ones who value men this way. Women are the ones who virginshame men.

AverageDoomer- · 2023-10-09T16:22:19+00:00

Involuntary virginity is a sign of low genetic quality, and humans are subconsciously disgusted by genetic dead ends, obviously as you guys know ugly people are treated worse in society, perceived as unfunny, creepy, unintelligent etc. and the opposite is also true for good looking people. (Halo/falio effect). Humans are animals so our nature isn’t as different from others mammals.

Money_Magician9572 · 2023-10-09T11:03:06+00:00

I don’t really know tbh there is nothing inherently wrong about being a virgin

mrs_seng · 2023-10-09T15:21:12+00:00

I'm not sure if it's a virgin shame or rather "virgin at this age - raised eyebrows".

It all depends on the age of that man. A 20 year old virgin, ok, fine. A 30 year old virgin will raise some questions.

I try to put myself in a hypothetical situation. Say i become a single 34 year old woman looking for somebody and i meet a 34 year old virgin. How and why did this guy end up with no relations at this age? Would his lack of experience impact my potential relationship with him? Do i have the patience to teach him basics?

How and why - i would search for the usual suspects: is he butt ugly? does he have any mental issues? And then decide. Guess i can look over physical aspects if he's a nice company, but i can't close an eye to mental illness.

I also think his inexperience would impact the relationship. Does he know what to say, when to say it, how to say it?

But I am also not up for teaching him basics.

Usually the problem with virgins is that with age, it becomes more and more a burden and they distance themselves from other people when it comes to experience. The gap widens with time.

What i feel like it's more important is the aspect of mental illness which oftentimes is the reason for virginity in the first place. Nobody wanted that guy because he was odd and weird. The virginity is a byproduct of that weirdness. And i don't want a weird guy, just like the other women before me didn't want a weird guy.

Weekly_Signal6481 · 2023-10-10T00:07:37+00:00

How old are you ?

SilentFroggy · 2023-10-09T13:24:28+00:00

The men are insecure and need to cope. Women probably don’t care unless you say something that hurts their feelings.

ScoobyDoo1414 · 2023-10-09T11:37:38+00:00

They want to bragg

allnamesweretaken5 · 2023-10-09T12:12:31+00:00

Idk. Maybe it's seen as unbecoming of masculine men. In the same way having a high body count is seen as unbecoming of feminine women.

RonMexico432 · 2023-10-09T13:20:10+00:00

Nothing physically changes when a guy loses his virginity. There's no reason, if he's a functioning adult, that anyone should have a clue he's a virgin.

Important-Bumblebee7 · 2023-10-09T14:20:41+00:00

'Virgin shaming' usually are just people who have a sex live pointing out flase claims about sex made by incels or showing you that your virginity is the consequence of your actions and believes.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-10-09T16:31:03+00:00

Men and women are virgin shamed for different reasons Women are shamed for jealousy reasons Men are shamed for being considered lsoers and pwcking skills in getting women.

anon12101 · 2023-10-09T19:21:43+00:00

I saw your post and tried to defend you. Just stared asking people what you being a virgin had to do with jobs lmao

Horses4causes · 2023-10-09T20:25:32+00:00

Virgin shaming is a problem for younger people who are uninterested in having sex because they possibly will endure constant pressure to willingly submit their minds and bodies to accept possession and coerced participation in the popular culture of sexual interaction.

Older people who avoid being fooled in their younger ages might then encounter an even greater beast. Virgin persecution in modern times is a reality. Victimisation is an injustice and a culmination of sexual immorality causing wickedness and resulting in eventual perpetrators who are afflicted by having personally developed psychopathy.

Not a joke. It's a fucked up world.

What is the root of all evil?

Fuckers...

Money is impertinent to the expression of sexual interaction. Money does not influence the crime of rape because even a penniless prick or downtrodden slut yearning to satiate their carnal desires will commit traumatic assault in the pursuit of sex.

FitDomPoet · 2023-10-09T21:06:39+00:00

A man losing his virginity is a right of passage. Women also know this.

Title	Why do people virgin shame?
Author	its-probly-over
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Comments	36
Date	October 9, 2023 10:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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