High conflict divorce. Will drag on for years and cost an insane amount.

Lawyer has said I should not continue to contribute to my 401k since she will claim half. She has reduced her 401k contributions below the max. I'm afraid if I don't, when the family court puts it to me at the end of this all, they'll take the date of "separation" and use that as when they divide assets. Am I wrong? Please reply with your experience.