Finally about to bring things to an end having had to deal with I suppose the usual:

- False claims of domestic violence (Claims I abused her the entire length of the marriage). Never once touched her or even cursed at her for that matter. In fact, I'd often go and "hide" in the room just to escape the madness or make my way to the shed to find peace.

- False claims of child abuse and negligence when the above did not work in her favor. Even tried to take the kids to the doctor citing things that are too sick to repeat here.

During our kids exchanges I typically keep a bodycam near or on me, she uses her cell phone. I tend to park at least 20ft away from her and take the kids to middle as to not get anywhere close to her or her property. For the fourth time, as I'm taking our son out she would come close to me and my car and myself to interrupt the last bit of conversations I'd have with our kids. We like to say our goodbyes and say something silly. The point is, and given what I had to endure with the accusations above, I do not feel comfortable this person coming so close to me and interrupting the last bit of time I have with our kids. Our son had a confused look on his face as she was 2-3ft away in front of us with a cell phone in his face recording. I am tempted to say the following to her:

Hi "Person", Please do not come as close to me as you've done for the fourth time during our kids exchange, I try to keep as much distance from you as possible while making it easy for the kids to transition - more important to me is our son, he was confused you coming up not just in my face but his with a cell phone recording. Please be decent and do not come around to the back of my vehicle, there is no emergency or need for it. I want our kids to be as comfortable as possible during child exchanges. If you must record, there are clip on bodycams that serve this purpose. That is what I use.