So it has been a while since the STBX brought up the matter of divorce, and I think I’m close to the last of the 5 stages of grief (acceptance), at least in the sense that thinking about it doesn’t make me want to break down and cry anymore. While I wouldn’t object if she suddenly changed her mind about the divorce, I kinda want to get this matter over and done with as opposed to being stuck in limbo (no divorce papers received yet, but no idea as to whether she has actually filed for divorce or not. Asking her doesn’t help as her favourite hobby nowadays is stonewalling me). Would it be advisable to speed things up by texting her something like “hi so may I know when can I expect to receive the divorce papers”? First, it hints that I’ve finally come to terms with the divorce, and second, it could help us bring things to a speedier conclusion.