Just a short sorrowful post.

So my wife wanted a separation and moved out. Tonight is the first time our son is going to sleep at her place. I have been the primary caretaker for him (he's almost 4 now) for the last 18 months. She does a video call with me and he's just crying and begging me to come visit or pick him up. It tears me apart more than any of the hurt she has layed on me in the past year. I want him to be happy and I don't think it's going to work with her.