Short Rant - Cleaning the House

dday_throwaway3 · 2022-04-25T15:53:59+00:00

Stop focusing on bullshit that doesn't matter, like her opinion.

If she's been gone a month, you should be filing for exclusive use and occupancy of the home. Status quo is the greatest bias of the court. If you're doing everything for the kids, then you're going to win primary parenting time with them. That means she'll be paying you child support. Then you can afford the maid. :)

jimsmythee · 2022-04-25T15:42:52+00:00

Why on earth would you want to reconcile?

CrazySanta7 · 2022-04-25T16:01:43+00:00

Bro, it completely sucks in the beginning. Take a step back and a take deep breath. Most of us went through some of this. These 'Chores' have to get done and you will find time.

Reconcilliatiom always seems like a good idea, but this is not the damn movies. Reconciliation seldom ever works out. The person you married is not the same person now. They have moved on and don't care one bit about you. It's a truth i had to face as well. It's okay to let anger/frustration out, but it's not going to change things. Start building your new awesome life and don't even reply to her unless it's about kids.

coolfx35 · 2022-04-25T16:32:15+00:00

why is this nsfw?

lostcanuck007 · 2022-04-26T01:25:06+00:00

umm lawyer up and when you have your shit in order, drop the dogs off at her parents house or the shelter.

downsize and/or sell the home. as you "dont need it anymore". she can still claim the home and you out of it even if she hasnt been living there for sometime. do everything quietly, take screenshots, and put up recorders and cameras where you can.

document her attitude, you are probably still going to lose custody. just file first, forget reconciliation. FILE FIRST AND PREPARE YOUR ANUS.

pegleg_legal · 2022-04-26T01:38:38+00:00

Be angry, but don't express it to her. Don't respond to her attacks, let them go. Most importantly, do NOT try to push any responsibility to her. She's trying to teach you a lesson, it seems. And it also seems it's working. Gut it. Bite the bullet. You don't need her and she needs to know that.

Keep fighting the good fight.

Title	Short Rant - Cleaning the House
Author	Significant-Bother-1
Upvotes	15
Comments	24
Date	April 25, 2022 3:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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