Trying to figure out my next steps and looking for advice. My wife told me in July I’m everything to her but she just doesn’t love me anymore (been married 12 years / together 15). We have two kids 7 and 9. She has constantly told me she wants a divorce and has actually went to a lawyer consult. However, she says she isn’t ready to file yet. Since this all started I began therapy because I certainly had things I needed to work on. She delayed therapy by a few months. We went to couples counseling twice with her quitting saying it was a waste of time. Now we are in a trial separation with us moving back and forth to the home we own to allow the kids to have their space. I’m becoming impatient. She seems that she isn’t confident that divorce is what she wants but I’m tired of the emotional rollercoaster and think I might just be ready to call it. Has anyone else experienced this? Looking for thoughts.