I’m 4 months separated and last night I went to a club and danced with a bunch of women. Nothing intimate just fun dancing. I’m 31 but can pass for 25 still. Anyways, the whole time I was thinking about my “wife” (not sure what to call her). I even chatted and danced with a 20 year old who was very interested, but it still felt too soon. Once I’m in my own house (hopefully a month from now) then I’ll start dating for real.

Anyways, this must be part of the moving on process right? Like a slow confidence build? It sucks she was on my mind the whole night, but I’m pretty sure if one of those girls I was dancing with started making out with me I wouldn’t have stopped her. But I was hesitant on making a move. I think my next night out would probably lead me to pursuing more intimacy though. Are drunk hookups a bad idea though? Still trying to get this process of moving on figured out…