Last night my wife expressed to me that she was upset with how much time I was spending in my office and I told her that I didn't like to sit and watch TV all the time and that's why. Then she started screaming at me and getting in my face and trying to intimidate me. She was slamming doors left and right and it was late. Our 2 year old daughter was asleep and I was worried she was gonna wake up so I tried to get her to calm down but it got worse. She left the house and went to a casino and came back more drunk than when she left. The fighting continued and then she was supporting her 15 yr old son when he got in my face and threatened to hit me. Realizing there wasn't gonna be any resolution until she was sober I left. Then she staged a chair outside of a window and tried telling me I was planning to kidnap our daughter (my windows can't be opened from the outside). My stepson was babysitting and while I was gone she called those kid's mom and made it out that I was being violent and aggressive even though I was with mom and kept my calm the whole time. Through all of this she's telling me that she is acting like this because I don't care about her feelings and that she warned me she was gonna get pissed. She drinks every day and even her son has brought up that she drinks to much. I love her so much but I don't know what to do. She's done this multiple times and I don't feel like the kids should have to witness anything like that. She uses my daughter against me and keeps screaming and threatening to leave with the kids until I can't take it anymore and just start to agree with her. What do I do?