Holiday custody schedule. My STBX and I we can't legally be divorced for a few months. We haven't really thought about a parenting plan in a few months because our current arrangement has been working out.

Probably should of would of had a plan in place. My STBX and I rarely talk to each other unless it is related to school or medical issues regarding our children.

Last conversation with my STBX was that they were off on Thanksgiving but didn't mention if working Christmas. My STBX has the children on Thanksgiving, which is fine can celebrate another day. I am off of work on Christmas. I want to have the children on Christmas. I am also flexible.

I was considering asking my STBX if she is off on Christmas if I can have the children the Saturday night before the week of Christmas and return them back Christmas Eve. With the deal can have them the first Sunday the week after Christmas. We each have four days in a row.

Only concern is I can't guarantee that my STBX would tell the truth if they are really off on Christmas. Not sure what to do. I really don't want my children not being with one of us on Christmas. Would it be crossing boundaries to ask my STBX to screenshot their work schedule to me?