My STBXW is a mess. She called for the separation, she started talking to someone, slept with that person, and from what I can tell is just alone now. She had a mental break down at work with high blood pressure and being told at the doctor she couldn't leave till she set up weekly therapy. I have accepted the separation and she makes excuses like seeing the dogs and coming to get stuff (that she often forgets or can't move in her car) to come to the house she left. If I am home she has made comments about how I look good. I have shown no interest in any of this behavior. Now she just tries to pick fights over everything.

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I texted her today to see if our realtor we bought with last year was okay to place on the divorce paperwork to sell with if she can't get financing. She went off and started asking questions like when I spoke with the realtor and all this when this was conversations we had 2 months back. She tries to pick fights just to pick them. She is threatening to drag this out just to drag this out. She is VERY obviously regretting her actions and not to sound vain, but isn't over our relationship.

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Do I just ignore her completely? I tried reasoning and trying to take her into consideration in this. However at this point its just pointless people pleasing to try and ease the process. Which isn't working. How do I get her to just move on. I have basically said other than half the house and the dogs she could ask for just about anything in our home and I would part with it just to get out of here. Its not about stuff its about peace and the sooner I can just forget she exists on the same planet the better.