Been a long time lurker here. I have decided that it is better if my wife and I go our separate ways. Things have been not good between us since one month after the wedding. We have one child together (2). She stays home with the kid and I work.

I want to try my best to control myself and my emotions and not just walk out right away. I want to be smart and strategic and set myself up good before the divorce.

What should I do to prepare myself for divorce? Emotionally? Financially? Anything helps.