Married for 32 years (we are both 56), to adult kids that are married. So, it is just the two us now. I am in a sexless marriage, where we argue almost daily and I am ready to move on. In my view, she doesn't want a husband, she wants any person who will live with her to provide a sense of 'security'. I want more, plus I want a peaceful life moving forward. We own our home outright and have a couple of bucks saved up. We could both walk away with about 300 thousand. We just moved to GA where I have to be a resident for 6 months before filing, which is what I planned to do. right now, I am trying to figure out how to tell my kids. my biggest problem is the shame of having a failure in divorce, being the only sibling of 7 to divorce, etc. Not sure how to handle it.