I'm just done with my wife. She is a 49 year old grown teenager who can never be wrong. There's no accountability at all. She drinks every evening and often becomes so mean and smug. I try to work around it. She is beyond horrific with a great salary. I've given up on her changing in that area. I have one line where she knows that I do not want her to cross, but yet, she keeps crossing. That line is, do not bring marijuana into my house. I do not want to smell it in my house, especially when my teenaged daughter is in the bedroom across the hall. She knows this, and she has repeatedly crossed it. She does this without any apologies. It's like George Costanza trying to break up his engagement, but he dosen't have the balls to do it. She knows that she would look like a bitch among her friends and family if she were to break up with me. So it's like she is looking for me to ask for a divorce. My youngest has 2 years left with high school. I just can't see us remaining together after my daughter leaves for college. I almost feel like coming up with 10 grand and giving it to her to get her own apartment and furnish it. The problem is that her credit cards are beyond out of control. I guess I'm largely to blame because in my quest to keep the peace and to do the whole happy wife/happy life thing, I have just never made her to be accountable for anything.