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Interesting post happening in AITAH

Chain-whip

August 16, 2023
7 upvotes
/r/Divorce_Men

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15sp8vn/aita_for_rejecting_my_boyfriends_proposal_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

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Title Interesting post happening in AITAH
Author

Chain-whip

Upvotes 7
Comments 12
Date August 16, 2023 2:49 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/15srzb5/interesting_post_happening_in_aitah/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/interesting-post-happening-in-aitah.1228701
https://theredarchive.com/post/1228701
Top posts by Chain-whip

Termination of Alimony

85 upvotes
October 12, 2025
/r/Divorce_Men

Comments

[–]DicksOut4Edamame 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So absolutely shitty and even shittier that this isn’t atypical

[–]northdakotact 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She is the poster child for why Alimony was reformed in Florida.

[–]Chain-whip[S] 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I am in the same position, my ex will never get married again for the same reasons outlined. However she is not on my health insurance so…

[–]northdakotact 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I was married, we had an aging overweight former trophy wife living on our block. She remarried literally within a couple days of her 5 year temporary alimony ending.

[–]northdakotact 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Their may be hope for society after all. Her comments about her situation are getting blown to pieces. Literally she has gotten thousands of downvotes.

She claims it's "infuriating" that she can't move in the new boyfriend and still collect the health insurance and alimony.

"Because Massachusetts lives in the dark ages and if we cohabitate or hold ourselves out as married ( like sharing assets or binding ourselves together in any way legally) I will lose my alimony. Very barbaric if you ask me."

"We can't live together- I'd lose my alimony. Ridiculous if you ask me. Apparently if you live together the state assumes this other man will be supporting me.""

[–]RideATX 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The best is where she says that Mass law is horribly unfair to women... God, I hope she gets emotional and marries the new guy. Feel bad for her ex.

[–]northdakotact 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's indentured servitude for the ex until death, but she's the victim. You can't make this stuff up

[–]Token_or_TolkienuPOS 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

44yrs old and still refusing to get a job. Even if she was a SAHM and doing the majority parenting, the husband was still also providing for that lifestyle. So it's equal and she should now get her ass up to work. These lowlifes are all over the place.

Another one just yesterday was angry that she (47) would not be inheriting the house that she and her husband (65) live in upon his death because the house actually belonged to the husband's late wife who had inherited it from her own parents but she passed before she had a will. It was a pre marital asset but he got it after her death. The house is going to their daughter (30) because it belonged to her mother. This gold digger was upset that she'll "only" be getting all his life insurance and some stuff.

They are disgusting these low key sex legal workers

[–]playerknowmore 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was hilarious. That bit at the end AITA for not wanting to lose my benefits. She sounds like a veteran or retired police officer.

Seriously, reading between the lines. She left her nice-guy doctor. Probably because he wouldn't let her stay in her masculine energy. He also was preventing her from spending all of his money.

She is basically telling her new boyfriend he doesn't make enough to ride all the way round the track. Women who walk around with Hermes bags wouldn't be caught dead with a Micheal Koors bag.

[–]bluewizard8877 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This doesn’t really apply to that posting but one benefit to working for the federal government,…. the spouse cannot stay on the federal insurance plan once the divorce is finalized. Dependent kids yes, spouse no. Not sure for anyone else if it really costs much, if anything to carry the ex-spouse on the health plan.

[–]dnbndnb 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In such a circumstance, as the man, I would literally be saving every nickel until I had enough money to live the rest of my life in Thailand, Ecuador, Eastern Europe, Mexico, or any other cheap place. And then I’d just up and disappear forever. I personally consider lifetime alimony the same as slavery or indentured servitude, both of which are illegal in this country. Yet lifetime alimony is not?

[–]dukeofthefoothills1 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women treat men the way men treat jobs.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR638YYph5g

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