So I live in fl and my ex wife lives in nc with our 3 yr old child, I’ve been living away from them for about 10 months now and it’s horrible , (we separated due to her infidelity) she’s been having a bf this whole time and I just recently got into a relationship about 3 months ago , well when she had the bf she would be sort of an asshole to me and tell me things like this guy is spending time with my son a lot knowing I’m far away but as of recently her family told her they don’t approve of this new man and that she should go back with me and have my son raised around me , I told her I have a gf now and she texted me today saying she just broke up with the guy and wanted me to move back to NC with her where she lives. She has her own place but idk if it would be a mistake to just up and leave my relationship now and live under her roof and if things don’t work out I will lose my family and the relationship I have now with this girl I have now. I want to be around my son but doing that means to up and leave what I have now and go , and I have done that before with my ex wife a few years back but I only lived away 3 months and I came back and now it’s been 10 months so it’s def the longest time I’ve been without her and my son. I guess I just hate disappointing people and leaving this girl I have will complete break her and she’ll hate me for sure . Idk what to do but I’ve been in a depression for the past months and it’s not easy..