Together 20 years since a young age. Two young kids. Wife asked for divorce 7 weeks ago. Probably someone else entered the picture.

Just found out the stbx is making her own plans for a group trip next year for her 40th. Something we obviously would have done together if things were fine.

I know I shouldn't even want her to be in my future life given the betrayal. But it just makes me incredibly sad that we will no longer be making major plans together anymore.