So, I'm 18 months past separation and a year past the official divorce. I spent a year recovering from the sudden life change. We have 2 teenagers. I met an amazing woman. We can't get enough of each other. The time we spend together is incredible. My ex, while asking everyone else(including our kids) about my social life, has stayed sane and not been a bother. So why this post? The ex calls me last night in tears. She's got breast cancer, they're thinking it's fairly aggressive. It's gonna be a long road. I will be there throughout, especially for the kids. I guess this is just a rant....as soon as I can start picturing what the rest of my life is going to look like, something hits out of the blue. I'm a little worried how this will affect my current relationship. There's no chance I ever take her back, so thats not a worry. But I'm sure my time will tighten up, as it's going to be on me to get the child with no drivers license around, etc. It's going to be an interesting stretch.