My wife told me a couple Sundays ago she wants space and some time. She made it sound like it's over, then she flips, then she flips back again. I want her in my life but I'm not going to be dragged around forever. I got approved for a mortgage and I'm buying a house. I told her she can come with me and be a family and she can pick the house or I go alone. We currently rent from my mother in law and it sucks, it's hell. She couldn't decide, she seemed shocked I'm making moves. It's been two days and she still doesn't know. I'm pretty anxious but either way I think I'll be okay.