Reacting over ex

Comfortable-Angle660 · 2025-09-06T03:59:06+00:00

I don’t hate her, but I am done with her. In other words, I have zero patience for any type of tomfoolery, and I make sure she knows it.

She lied, spent like a fool, cheated numerous times, among other things. The grace I had is non-existent now.

thegreatcerebral · 2025-09-03T17:25:25+00:00

I'm not really sure what you are saying but is the person that is "overreacting" still paying alimony/child support and was screwed in the divorce and it most likely wasn't their fault to begin with?

...I mean that would do it for me.

RiseNo3399 · 2025-09-03T12:21:56+00:00

lol never say “love her better”. All you see is the outside and that poor guy is getting same person you had and are now better off without

MiloGoesToPorridge · 2025-09-03T12:18:21+00:00

Ten months in and I'm finding that I get less and less worked up at the sight and sound of her (co-parenting, so I have to have contact).

It seems to be fading.

MonkeyBranchBuster · 2025-09-03T11:01:32+00:00

I don't hate her, she hates me, for being the only person on the planet who sees her really for what she is, and she's the one that fucked up. I'm pretty much the same person who I was before, just with more boundaries and a bit less naive relationships wise.

After_Experience_764 · 2025-09-03T10:47:07+00:00

My wife had an affair with her boss and got pregnant with his kid. Blew up our family and impacted the kids without showing a single shred of remorse. I think I'm allowed to hate her for this.

Title	Reacting over ex
Author	RDJD5
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 3, 2025 10:02 AM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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