Hi Gents! 45 year old here. I’m not yet divorced, and in fact I still live in the same house as my separated wife and our teenage kids. We have separate rooms, co parent the kids and share bills etc. We get on ok and live like housemates. I can’t afford to move out just yet, but I do have a solicitor set up and ready to go when I am. I have episodes where I feel really depressed. The point I want to make is I’m done with relationships and even though I miss sex and cuddles I really don’t want one in the future. I love women and will make friends but I don’t want to spend time or money with one ever again. I’m done.