Struggling to get my head round the fact that despite all me wanting is to spend as much time as possible with my children I am getting absolutely fucked over.

We have a complete 50/50 agreement for childcare for our 3 kids. Yet i am being told i need to pay her £250 a month on top of all the benefits she receives for her and the kids.

I’ve had to start fresh, 5k in debt from getting a new place and setting it up for the kids, I am in a 2 bed flat and sleep on the sofa when I have the kids, whilst she has everything in our 4 bed old home. Refuses to be co-operative or helpful about anything and has got a new man in already.

I know she is claiming to be living alone and getting benefits for it. Should I inform the government? Or am I being petty?

The system just seems to absolutely fuck men over.

This is more just a rant I had to get off my chest. Had to deal with so much shit from this narcissistic cunt. Mental health fucked, physical health and sleep pattern fucked. Yet she’s there playing the victim whilst fucking the AP.