My wife recently destroyed our SUV going through a Chick-fil-A drive thru. She took out a whole brick column, insurance company deemed the the car total loss. This happened while our 2.5 year old was in the car, strapped in assuming.

She keeps threatening me with nonsense and I want to fight back.

Could I make an argument that I don't feel safe with my wife driving our kids because of the accident she recently had?