We were married for 4.5 years up until i had went on deployment, towards the end she started to act weird and I knew something was up. When I asked her she said she wanted to leave to be independent and wanted to leave and stuck to it, we had just had our firs child a week before I had left for 5 months. Come to find our when I got back she had been having an affair while I was gone. I was devistated and didn’t know what to do. She had stuck to her guns, I did still want to make things work as I know had made mistakes during our marriage too but never cheated. I eventually got help and did an intensive therapy sessions for 3 weeks and it did help but during she wanted to get back with me, at the time I was still trying to get over it so i declined but told her we can talk after I was done with it. She had been going on a few dates with other guys because she was done with the guy she had left me for as have I only becausei wanted to see what was out there. I have been on multiple dates with women and even actually got serious with one but I just didn’t feel that connection, as I am still in love with her. We have been seperated for a little over a year and everytime i bring up divorce she kind of dodges the question. Now I got orders to texas and she is moving as well so i can be with my kid, which i very much want. We have casual conversations sometimes and joke around, and whenevever I bring up us trying to make things work she keeps telling me to wait until we move. Is she just leading me on? Should i just move on?