I dont know what to do

p0pcorn3r · 2020-10-10T22:48:39+00:00

What redpill does is telling you that evrything positive in your life, women and society is a lie. One day you'll notice the pattern, every "truth" they share are always about hurting you or someone else.

For them, it's "the truth hurts" taken up to eleven, to the point of rejecting any positive advice and ideals as "bluepill bullshit". If it hurts it's real, if it helps it's fake. Like, imagine a mental-masochist constantly hurting his mind with "hard truths" to the point of desperation, thinking he can use that to his advantage only to hurt others and himself even more. All of that to end up blackpilled, or completly stuck in bubble made of his own lies he calls truths. While all the while, the real truth never had to hurt anyone.

You can take any advice you want, from us or trp, you always decide in the end. What really matters to us is that you still manage to be happy with yourself and others.

zoemondo · 2020-10-10T21:40:19+00:00

Hey look man I know we had some words with each other in your other post but I still hope you find some peace with yourself.

RedPillDetox · 2020-10-10T22:37:22+00:00

How many people have you dated in your life? Aren't you like 18 years old?

If you do you need to quit all of this shit and move on with your life. Realize that this whole shit is pointless... date 5, or 6 people from different demographics and in different contexts. Chances are you're gonna be in fucked up situations and in good situations and meet different people and come to your own conclusions. Some of them red pill, some of them blue pill. Truth tends to be always in the middle most of the time. Just quit this pill shit. Invest your time in your other interest and living your life. You're in a cool fase of your life. Have fun... forget this dating shit, let it happen at it's own pace and take your own conclusions over the years, dude.

Inareskai · 2020-10-10T22:07:23+00:00

I think it's good to leave the redpill and those ideas.

If you need to work on trusting women and look for sources of advice which you also trust more, that's fine. Those might take time and you are still quite young.

But the question can sort of be read as 'I can't decide if I should stop drinking poison, because I don't know what else I want to drink/I'm not sure I like the other drinks'. It's still a good idea to stop drinking poison, even if you're not sure what comes next.

chofferblower · 2020-10-10T23:54:44+00:00

Okay, i think I have an idea for you, that probably wasn’t suggested before. You say you’re in stalemate situation between two belief systems, and that you are aware of the irrationality woven in those beliefs.

I suggest you woosh that out through skepticism training and thinking. This will take some time but here’s what you can do.

Create a new YouTube account or channel
Subscribe to science channels like Vsauce, Veritasium, Physics Girl or Kurztgesagt, and skeptics channels like Rationality Rules, Genetically Modified Skeptics or CosmicSkeptics
Use algorithmic recommendation to find new content relating to your specific curiosity and sensibility
Try to spend the most of your Youtube time on this account. Don’t ever watch TRP videos on this account as it will fuck your recommendation profile

Over time, you’ll learn the ropes of critical thinking, and be more confident with your capability at rationality, and the knot will entangle itself. Critical thinking is immensely empowering once you know how to wield it, the kind of empowerment you only get from wielding a tool you know has been crafted by the best.

grummthepillgrumm · 2020-10-11T13:23:06+00:00

You might not know this, but literally every person goes through the "i've never dated anyone, will anyone ever love me, am i ugly?" phase. Even attractive people go through this at one point or another. Love always comes when you least expect it. That's why everyone's advice is to work on yourself, because then you will spend your time on productive things instead of wasting it pining and wishing. If you were a woman, would you be more attracted to the guy who has low self-esteem and thinks he's not good enough, or to the guy who doesn't give a shit what he looks like or what people think of him and does what he likes to do?

Stop worrying so much about what you don't have, spend your time on things that will make you happy, and everything will fall into place eventually. The same thing happened to me, it happens to everyone.

Title	I dont know what to do
Author	RoseAvara
Upvotes	9
Comments	29
Date	October 10, 2020 9:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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