I never get responses on dating apps unless I am getting call unattractive and ugly and I am still a virgin at 26) should I just buy a sex doll since I am ugly as hell to women in general

HelenHavok · 2023-06-04T13:20:51+00:00

Don’t use dating apps. They propagate shallow, looks-based partnering. It’s far better to meet likeminded people in person at a shared activity or hobby. I don’t know almost anyone in a successful relationship that met through dating apps, and those that did had to wade through a lot of garbage first. If your circumstances make going out places very difficult (physically, financially, geographically, etc.), meet people in online spaces you enjoy, but don’t use dating apps.

I guess I don’t have a strong opinion about sex dolls. Personally, I find dolls in general a little creepy and would be weirded out if I discovered a partner had one, but that’s a judgement independent from their function and I can understand they might be intriguing or titillating tools. I think there are likely much better and less stigmatized sex toys out there that can give you blessed relief without sort of poorly mimicking a human. I guess I also wonder if sex with a woman-shaped object without agency or personality could result in some unhealthy ideas/associations (even subconsciously) around real women or complicate your sexual function, but I don’t know enough about people who use sex dolls to even speculate.

Naus1987 · 2023-06-04T16:48:49+00:00

If non-sexual display dolls like Dollfie Dream are a thousand dollars, I can’t imagine sex dolls being very cheap, lol.

So if you got the money to blow, I’d invest in a hobby or therapy.

Doll collecting can get stupidly expensive really fast. They’re fun to collect though!

mikey_weasel · 2023-06-04T13:14:53+00:00

I mean if you think you would enjoy having a sex doll that could be something you do. They seem quite expensive but if you can afford it.

But also from vaguely remembered posts you've since deleted I suspect its much more your personality that's holding you back, as the pics on your profile are neutral. They aren't hurting your chances. but they aren't making up for a shitty personality.

No_Jelly_6635 · 2023-06-04T13:38:56+00:00

You need to go out. Women prefer meeting men in real life over apps. Most of the users of these apps are men as well. If you join an activity (sports,volunteering, arts, book club) you can make friends and maybe a relationship can bloom from that.

Even make yourself available by having a social media that has interesting content like cooking or travels or something that interests you where people you meet can contact you and maybe then someone might slide in to the dms.

It works more than you think. And it makes for a better love story/meeting story and healthier life.

Midnightchickover · 2023-06-04T16:51:58+00:00

I think you should socialize more in general, build communication, networking through hobbies and social events. Detox from dating apps for the near future. Just work on yourself.

Everything else is up to you, you have to do whatever makes you happy or satisfy your own desires. You are the arbiter of your own destiny. No one else can decide but you, since you’re not in a relationship.

tromp-et · 2023-06-04T11:25:16+00:00

What are you looking for on dating apps?

HappyRainbowSparkle · 2023-06-04T11:27:05+00:00

Have you tried not using apps. What else is on your profile? Do you obsess with apparently being ugly, what kind of women are you trying to attract

Highland60 · 2023-06-04T19:21:46+00:00

Dating apps are a complete waste of time for 99% of guys. Guys flood women's accounts with hundreds if not thousands of messages a day. So what happens? Women get their egos inflated, get their choice of who pays for their dates, and they get as much sex as they want. Guys on the other hand are lucky to get one reply. Dating apps give women all the control. Sure occasionally things work out but I'm not being bitter. I'm pretty damn accurate

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