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[–]NoNarcs_FDS Newbie163 points164 points165 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If I’m paying for my own vacation I’d rather go with my girls lol
[–]stankleykongFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeeessssss
[–]greatfloFDS Newbie262 points263 points264 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
To be honest I don’t think I’ll be into blowjobs when I start dating again, after finding this sub lol.
[–][deleted] 116 points117 points118 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think I will ever again either. I used to like doing it but men are so selfish and it disgusts me now. It's not even it being physically gross, I just don't care to give any more than I get.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oral sex isn't the same for women as it is for men, for women it's about receiving pleasure and being able to orgasm, for men its about demeaning and dominating a woman and making her as uncomfortable as possible. Men ruined bj's, they can stay mad about it.
[–]oathmilkFDS Newbie121 points122 points123 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've already gotten over it myself lol. Used to love it, now I hate it.
[–][deleted] 120 points121 points122 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
same. men don't deserve them.
[–]CharTheCatMomFDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Just curious, what about this sub specifically turned you off from it?
[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie204 points205 points206 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Not the OP, but I find it gross that if a man is dating multiple women he’s probably banging them—so there’s no way I’m going to put that dick in my mouth. Most men don’t even get STD checks. Plus they love to say “why would I eat a woman out if she’s been with multiple men?” Wellllll it goes both ways 🙄
Also, I knew a LVM who bragged about hooking up with two women in one day. He claimed he fucked the first one, and then the second one came over and sucked his dick after. He was so proud, it was gross.
[–]greatfloFDS Newbie131 points132 points133 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Throughout my whole life I’ve been into degradation in bed and I never realized how weird it is/how much it bothers me, personally, until I found FDS. I respect other women’s choices, but personally I am trying to divorce myself from being turned on by choking/slapping/called names/etc because it conflicts with my new mindset. And blowjobs fit in that category too I’m discovering, the thought of being subservient in any way to a man in bed makes me extremely uncomfortable now
[–]LingueenFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
holy heck, i am the same. i used to be SO into BDSM where i’d be the one being hit and degraded and ever since i found this sub i have become a new person. those things bother me now
[–]Capable_OkraFDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Men find blowjobs erotic due to the degradation of women factor
Edit for male lurkers: if that's not true then explain the prevalence of porn featuring a woman choking, gagging, or crying while she gives a blowjob
[–]azngirl7689At-Risk Pick Me Youth11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to do BJs mainly FOR men and I just don’t think I have in me anymore. I’m ok without oral on me so it’s not like I’m being a dick.
[–]alien_aliceFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially when they push on your head during it 🤮 sick of these porn addicts
[–]FDSxMuffinVSratFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't have a problem with BJs but I have a problem with bad sex.
[–]CommercialCamel2FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
đź’Ż
[–]RamenUndergraduateFDS Newbie107 points108 points109 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
50/50 flight along w/ no orgasms.... no thanks!
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m not going anywhere with a guy that can’t finish me off.. paid or not I’m good
[–]Kitty015FDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I ain’t exchanging blowjobs for vacations sorry. Sounds like prostitution with an extra step.
[–]hgd29FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Daaammmnn
[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
applies any time i am paying tbh
[–]lil_monsteraFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And they say women aren't funny
[–]dotspiceFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at all the boys in the comments. It seems like they would just find a 50/50 woman and leave us alone. But they won't do that because they know that deep down they want a feminine woman, they just can't afford one.
[–]tuodnanwod1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I find them more intimate than sex bc: A.) men won’t wear a condom for a blowjob, so we welcome STD’s by oral transmission but not vaginal?? B.) men don’t pay attention to themselves/get tested as often as we do so it’s a higher risk for us C.) your most private area is inside my face, that’s intimate as FUCK...
It’s either we’re committed AND oral is reciprocal or nothing.
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[–]NoNarcs_FDS Newbie163 points164 points165 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]stankleykongFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]greatfloFDS Newbie262 points263 points264 points (16 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 116 points117 points118 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]oathmilkFDS Newbie121 points122 points123 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 120 points121 points122 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CharTheCatMomFDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie204 points205 points206 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]greatfloFDS Newbie131 points132 points133 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]LingueenFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Capable_OkraFDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]azngirl7689At-Risk Pick Me Youth11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]alien_aliceFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FDSxMuffinVSratFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CommercialCamel2FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RamenUndergraduateFDS Newbie107 points108 points109 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Kitty015FDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]hgd29FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lil_monsteraFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]dotspiceFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]tuodnanwod1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link