A 30 something comes to a harsh realization,starting to realize it may be too late for love// Basically men jerking of a crying woman that she cant find her love.In her later video she introduce her new boyfirend,men in the comments still attacking and harassing her

outside-perception · 2020-06-14T12:16:43+00:00

Gonna say that dating 30+ may be slightly harder but it's far from impossible. Tons of people start over in their 30s and it's the cultural norm where I'm from for people to marry 31 to 33 and have kids around 35.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-06-14T17:42:19+00:00

So, a female coworker of mine told me of all the ages, she thinks women are most attractive in their 30s, in terms of physical beauty. She said by this age you know how to dress yourself very well, do your makeup, hopefully have confidence and boundaries, but still look young.

IMO "the wall" is fake. Fertility does decline in a woman's 30s for most women, which is something to consider if you want a family. My personal goal is to have a healthy, loving relationship with my husband and children, rather than to just have a husband and children.

When I cancelled my wedding, I was about 2 1/2 months shy of my 30th birthday. Being over 30 and single was probably one of my greatest fears due to internalized cultural misogyny. My in-laws were incredibly shitty to me since day one of my engagement and publicly humiliated me at my bridal shower. My ex attempted one time to engage with them and get them to mend fences, before taking their side and gaslighting me. I FIRMLY believe that they all thought I'd just eat their shit and go through with the wedding because I was nearing 30 and of course, who would want to be an old maid? Be alone? Risk not having children? Live on a single income? My ex thought so, too. They were wrong.

I dumped him the day after the bridal shower and felt so much better than I had in MONTHS. He told me I would "fail at life" without him.

Now, I am 31 now and am happier than I had been in years. I've accomplished things on my own that I never believed in myself to accomplish, that I was too scared to do. The anxiety I thought was a disorder caused by brain chemistry imbalance is almost nonexistent. Boundaries are a language I speak fluently now, and I have more friends and better relationships with my family because I stopped being as passive.

HVM can be rare at any age, and I hope this little story can encourage my fellow 30 somethings to disregard the lies about "hitting the wall" and live life with happiness, good health, and abundance.

Capable_Okra · 2020-06-14T17:08:57+00:00

Men invented "the wall" so that women in their 20s would desperately settle for whatever scum they're dating. It's all so that men don't have to try harder or deal with smart women in their 30s who have finally leveled up

giftofnocondemnation · 2020-06-14T16:06:49+00:00

Men in their 20's abuse women. Men in their 30's abuse women. Does it matter our ages? If a man doesn't appreciate a beautiful intelligent woman who is 40plus, 50plus, then he is worthless anyway! Men's validation is worthless. If only they knew how worthless they are.

circescircus · 2020-06-14T17:58:06+00:00

Scrotes have a lot of revenge fantasies about what women's lives are like after 30.

Their primary goal is to terrorize 20something women into thinking that the worst thing that can happen to them is not being chosen by a mediocre or even a destructive man. They also get off on trying to insult "older" women online. Always online. But the #1 goal for them, to get younger women to hand over their youth and future to them, before they wisen up. It gets increasingly difficult for men to manipulate women as women get older-- they can't pull this shit as easily on 30+ women, they also hit the wall at 200 mph and most look like a fat diseased bald ogre past age 40, and are simply unattractive to women their own age. They need to brainwash a young, vulnerable woman, but there aren't enough of those to go around, so they get mad and want to lower the age of consent, so they can have access to even more naive and even more vulnerable girls/women.

SpecificPatience8 · 2020-06-14T12:11:42+00:00

her new boyfriend❤️:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAHeLVTeqLQ&t=249s

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-06-14T14:56:02+00:00

There will be men at every age of our lives.

morrigan1618 · 2020-06-14T15:34:00+00:00

Fuck, sometimes I wish "the wall" was a real thing. Like as soon as you turn 30, guys just leave you alone. No more creeping, negging, sexual harrassment, etc. Wouldn't it be lovely?

Yet here I am, 32 years old and PREGNANT WITH MY 4TH, still getting freaking creeped on. Ugh.

sadcello · 2020-06-16T19:47:23+00:00

What's to hate about being old? I have money, I'm independent, I'm wiser, I'm resourceful, I look the best I've ever been. I attract men now, after being laughed at my face for having a crush on an average nerd guy in my youth. The wall only happens because women age themselves through unhappy marriage with menchildren and stuck working, homemaking and raising kids by themselves. I look much younger than all same age women who are wives and mothers, because I have no manchild who gives me daily stress. At our age, I look more attractive than my friends who used to be attractive in their youth, mostly just because I have time and money to take care of myself. What's to hate, really? I love being 30.

With men it's the reverse, the forever alones and incels look old and dried, the married ones look younger and full of energy (but usually fat from their wife's cooking). Men are vampires. Get away from them and guaranteed it'll make you 5-20 years younger.

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