Almost every single dead bedroom involving LL men is related to porn use and compulsive masturbation. Be advised, ladies.

azngirl7689 · 2019-11-25T09:54:30+00:00

And most LL ladies are either overburdened since manchild won’t help with the children/housework or their SOs approach them like they’re pornstars (hint this doesn’t work on normal women.) I’ve also noticed a lot of the HL men want porn star sex every time and a light lazy sex session is deemed “duty sex.”

rainbowcatsurprise · 2019-11-25T13:57:09+00:00

When I first moved to the city, I went in a few dates and started noticing a pattern. Men under 30, who were highly successful in their career and in good physical shape, having to have a conversation about how their dick just doesn’t work right during the third date...usually while we were just kissing and had all our clothes on. I thought it was something in the NYC water or stress, but nah. Dudes under 30 these days aren’t suffering from some physical ailment- they’re pornsick.

dackaroo · 2019-11-25T02:48:37+00:00

That place is awful. I had a bf once who refused to listen to what I liked and was useless at foreplay. Instead of talking to me about what I wanted, he went to them for help. Then he told me I fucked like a dead fish. I'm sure you can fill in the blanks as to what was said about me in that subreddit.

ChristieFox · 2019-11-25T02:36:12+00:00

Lurking the deadbedroom sub is a guilty pleasure of mine. I do it to remind myself of my worth, because I can't believe the number of people willing to put up with zero sex for YEARS sometimes DECADES. And all the posts start the same way: "We have a wonderful relationship and we are best friends, but..." No, no you don't have a wonderful relationship. If you did, this wouldn't be happening. Of course there are a million reasons why a dead bedroom might exist, but it's certainly not happening in a perfectly fantastic relationship. Full stop.

Edit: I forgot to mention that I also cant believe the number of men in that sub who complain that they're not getting sex because their wives have cancer, a serious medical condition, or just gave birth and therefore gained a few pounds. Utterly disgusting.

kiksuya_ · 2019-11-25T11:29:57+00:00

I guarantee a lot of “LL” women are just sick of their SOs shit.

I have a db due to my husbands rampant infidelity, zero help with kids/house/animals and otherwise abusive nature. He honestly has no clue why I don’t want to fuck him. He thinks his behavior is fine and that I should applaud his efforts at being faithful for one out of ten years. Oh he also put away his own laundry for the first time in months so I guess he wants a cookie for that too.

grimreapersdtr · 2019-11-26T00:41:56+00:00

Go to love after porn.
Story after story of women who have had their lives and sanity destroyed by involvement with porn addicts. Don’t cling to a relationship where you have to compete with shapeshifting pixelated pocket-sized mistresses on a daily basis.

olivetree08 · 2019-11-25T03:06:44+00:00

My ex fiancé looked at tons of porn daily (maybe 30 open tabs on the browser daily?) all from one site “kind girls” which is photos of young thing white women (at least that’s what he was looking at.) I’m an average curvy 36 year old woman and look nothing like them. We didn’t have sec for six months before we broke up because he said he just wasn’t feeling sexual at all. I didn’t know there was a term for this. Sounds like pornsickness.

DoneBeenHadBeenDone · 2019-11-25T02:26:02+00:00

My husband recently told me he can't remember the last time he watched porn (we're both always home so I believe him) He told me he doesn't want to watch it because he has me, and showered me with a bunch of amazing compliments. Ive honestly never been made to feel more special by a guy before, and I realize and how rare it is for women to get this from guys these days.

femurfatale · 2019-11-25T02:02:31+00:00

This happened to me and I didn't even consider porn sick because I didn't know about it. I didn't even consider it but I'm glad I know now

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Title	Almost every single dead bedroom involving LL men is related to porn use and compulsive masturbation. Be advised, ladies.
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Date	November 24, 2019 11:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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