We've all heard that saying, "Never doubt a woman's intuition."
After getting over my 2+ year saga of a relationship, I cannot stress this enough. My ex was a chronic liar, constantly hiding dumb shit. Naturally a woman picks up on the shadiness, but he says "Oh it's nothing" or "Oh, she means nothing to me!" Eventually it turns to, "You're crazy, this is nothing" and you begin to feel insane.
The last nagging feeling I had was that my ex of 2 years turned FWB was catching feelings for a girl. I kept telling him that he liked her but he would attack me, call me horrible names, and became emotionally abusive. He asserted over and over that it was crazy that I assumed he would have a crush on her, and then coincidentally decided later after hanging out with her for an entire week, to break off of our FWB agreement. Yet I was still "crazy".
They're dating now. I was right, and pissed. He looked at me, laughing, "When did I say I never liked her?" and at that moment, it all clicked. I can't even describe how confused I am now realizing that my gut feeling was right throughout the last 2+ years. Not just limited to this situation, but all of our fights.
TRUST YOUR INTUITION. And more importantly if a man is a proven liar, immediately break it off. If a man is habitually hiding things from you and afraid to communicate, he is not worth your time.
Edit: And don't do FWB with your ex, though that wasn't meant to be the point of my post.
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