and I oop—

tauruspiscescancer

February 5, 2020

618 upvotes

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Title	and I oop—
Author	tauruspiscescancer
Upvotes	618
Comments	32
Date	February 5, 2020 5:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ezd1wb/and_i_oop/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/and-i-oop.694095 https://theredarchive.com/post/694095

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Never said it was okay. We have a right to be angry, but throwing their words back at them doesn’t help us grow as women. Honestly by responding negatively to what men say about women most of the time just gives them reason to keep talking shit. Cause they know it affects us.

The purpose of leveling up is to focus on your personal journey, not letting little trolls and turds ruin your day to where you have to go on Twitter and tell men to die. (Obviously not all men) By making it about them, you are taking away from yourself. Like this tweet is really the equivalent of writing your LVM a text of all the crap he’s done to you. He knows what he did, he doesn’t need you to explain it to him in detail and he doesn’t care. I understand the concept of venting, but I’m not about to let them see me sweat.

Like, the fact that LVM are coming into this sub to troll, and to cry and complain is enough for me.

And I’m not even trying to act high and mighty. I just see where ole girl who I replied to is coming from. I still have pickmeisha tendencies and getting mad over the petty shit I see on social media is one of them. But I personally get no satisfaction from using my energy to be mad or salty over LVM acting fools. It’s irritating and there’s no point. Like I laughed at the tweet, but it’s not a good look on this sub. This is that shit you laugh at in the group chat.

Sorry for the long ass reply.

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